OK... here goes.
I posted a question a while ago and tried to be friends with my ex. We were together for 6 months. And I love him dearly.
I have a great friendship with him and we always have lots of fun. We laugh , and get along so great. We have great chemistry and overall a really good relationship.
I was the one who broke it off, cause at the time I needed space and was starting a new career and trying to get my life on the right track.
I dated around and had some free time to myself and got things orgainized in my life. Im at a point were I want to be , but I still don't think he's at that point with me.
I recently went out with him and things started up again, but I don't know if I want to be his girlfriend. I like spending time with him and I told him it doesn't mean we are back together. And I cannot take a step back to where we were before.
I do love him, but I don't know if Im in love with him.
Should I continue or what should I do? Stay or end it?
2006-09-23 22:47:48 · 11 answers · asked by satckaren72 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi girl
Go where your heart tells you to go, Be friends.
If you 2 were ment to be together you will get together again, but if it wasnt ment to be, life is a weird thing, Weird things does happen.
You might not understand it now, but i believe that later you will.
2006-09-23 22:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by ogies_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should end such relation> It lacks respect, stability and belongingness. Try to create a new relation with a man full of everlasting belongingness and unified destiny and move along with him inseprable( never separated) through the dark routes of life.
2006-09-24 06:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ma'am you're in a pickle aren't you?
i think you should give this guy a break and be honest with him. stop mucking him and yourself around and either get on with each other or find another. hearts aren't meant for this much straing you know.
it's good you love him, but can that be like a brother or do you feel more?
sorry, i can't do better, but your in it and only you know what's going on inside you.
best of luck all the same.
2006-09-24 05:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out more ~ you are restricting yourself and all the great other opportunities that await you ! Fly and be free !
2006-09-24 05:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your are making this WAY too complicated; just decide if you want to be with him or not, and if you aren't sure , then you probably DON'T want to be with him, in which case move on with your life and let him move on with his.
2006-09-24 05:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to only see him with groups of Friends.
2006-09-24 05:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sending him mixed signals.. By going back, you are giving him false hopes. End it and STAY GONE.
2006-09-24 05:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Raven Sky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he know any of this? tell him that you do love him, but you dont know if you're in love with him. make sure he understands you & where you stand on things. go with what makes you the happiest, with him or not.
2006-09-24 05:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by pc_atlhottie2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound healthy. Sometimes you just can't go back, you have to move on....
2006-09-24 06:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are so great then why not try?
2006-09-24 05:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by kandn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋