Ok so im 21 and ive struggled with this problem like many other people so im hoping somebody will be able to lend some advice here goes. theres a girl i work with that recently grabbed my attention. She only just started a week ago but already im beginning to like her. she has flirted some with me. my question is how do i get her to see me as more than a friend before i fall in that category of just a friend? any advice is appreciated.
2006-09-23 22:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by zorlandkeirwulf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would start by asking her out, say to a movie just the two of you.........To Pirates of the Caribbean of course arr arr arr!
or to dinner, or whatever ya'll like to do, this will let her know that you are interested in being more than freinds. So make it Dinner not lunch or coffee. Lunches and coffee tell a girl you just want to be freinds! Somthing that says this is a date.
Be a little out of the ordinary, and search the market or Granny's garden for the largest, reddest juiciest, but firm tomato that you can find.
When you arrive to pick her up, present it to her held in the palm of your hand, this Big, lushious Tomato, as you would flowers.
Ya see the tomato is called the "love apple" make sure to tell her that you find her as sweet and beautiful, wink and add "and one hot tomatoe!
Will this garantee she will want to get more personal with you, no, but she will never forget it, and it will always be the most romantic gester she's ever encountered!
If she turns you down for a date, then cont. to be freinds, talk, hang-out.
If she agrees to go, get and give the tomato, if after she is still not sure of a personal relationship, then try not to feel hurt, or needy or stop being her freind.Continue talking and hangin out as you was before.........and give it some time....date other girls but unless you want her only (no Tomatoes that was a special somthing just for her, the other girls will talk, and she will discover only she got the Tomato)......and as she matures she won't beable to resisit the TOMATO kinda romance!
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If you find one that you find special, then dare to do somthing special for just that one, because women like ROMANCE and men who put that somthing extra out of the ordinary into it!
2006-09-23 22:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by pirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start flirting back, ask to take her to lunch on a brake, and then just plain out ask her to go out. It's worth the risk if you want to take it. Best of luck. You don't have to follow what I say it's just something you can do.
2006-09-23 22:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can flirt back with her n' ask her out.......go for a romantic dinner together n' ask about her hobbies, dreams,etc.....to show that u want to know more about her than her friends.....she'll get the message...good luck!!!
2006-09-23 22:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know that i tell all my guy friends everything about me...so dont let her tell you to much personal info....and take her out...but do it at night....even get her phone number and call her every once in a while to get to know her and let her get to know you.
2006-09-23 22:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her you can lick your eyebrows. She'll marry you then.
2006-09-23 22:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kiss her !
2006-09-23 22:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋