2006-09-23 22:15:00 · 10 answers · asked by Megs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question to yourself should be are YOU happy with who you are? If so, move on. If you don't make him happy anymore let him move on and find someone who does. Are you sure he still makes you happy? Don't let a guy make you feel bad about yourself. You know who you are and your values...stick with them and find someone who will love and accept you for who you are.
2006-09-23 23:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't change for them. If you're happy with the way you are, then you don't change. Otherwise, if you try to force yourself, it won't be genuine, it won't be natural, and they'll still complain that you don't make them happy. Then you'll have two unhappy people. Stay yourself and find someone who likes you just the way you are.
2006-09-24 05:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by ThatLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you dont change. If they are unhappy with you then let them go. We all need to find someone who wants to be with us as much as we want to be with them. Good rlationships should be an equal give and take. I know if i were with someone who didnt want me anymore,
then by golly, let him or her go with someone else who makes them happier. Life is to short to constantly be trying to keep the others interest. They better like me for who i am and not what they want me to be like. They had to like something about you in the beginning, maybe they have changed and not you. Real love is like two trees growing and maturing together, and not one growing so tall he overshadows and stunts the others growth.
2006-09-24 05:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change yourself for anyone.
You can't make someone happy if they weren't happy to begin with.
2006-09-24 05:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by kandn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more information than this in order to know what to do, if anything.
Ask him for examples of what you can do in order to make him happy.
And if he wants you to do something extra to make him happy, then you also should ask him to do something extra for you in order to make you more happy.
Happiness in a relationship works best when it is mutual. And there is nothing wrong with changing your behavior in order to please your partner, as long as he makes an equal effort to please you.
If for example he complains that you argue with him too much, then there is nothing wrong with you trying to be more polite, diplomatic, and respectful with him as long as he makes an equal effort to be more polite, diplomatic, and respectful with you.
If he wants more sex with you, then there is nothing wrong with you accomodating him as long as he makes an equal effort to give you some extra comfort or pleasure that you want.
It's very difficult to change and try to please your partner, when he doesn't try to do the same for you. But such change becomes easy and fun, when both partners are trying to please each other more than before.
2006-09-24 06:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change for anyone ! You'll find someone who will love you just the way you are !
2006-09-24 05:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I says go break up with him first before he does. I bet he won't even feel it. I won't waste my time with someone if they said that to me. They are just not worth the effort anymore.
2006-09-24 05:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
by dumping him and start making me happy my love.
2006-09-24 05:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by benny h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never change for anyone.
2006-09-24 06:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by 96degrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I break up with soon.
2006-09-24 05:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋