my bfriend and i broke up some time in May, but we made up after a month and everything was going on very well. Two days ago i received a message from him which read " Dont u think i ve wasted enough of ur tim. I dont lik da way i treat you. u need some1who wil luv u and treat u rite, i think u shud move on without me." I was ready to move on when we 1st broke up and not now, what should i do?
2006-09-23 22:07:16 · 10 answers · asked by LIFE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should bite the bullet.
It's NEVER easy breaking up with somebody, never. But sometimes you have to.
You might feel really bad for a few weeks, but after a while things will get better again.
Anyway, if this guy sends you messages like these it means he's not too sure himself...or he didn't have the guts to tell you face to face - coward.
2006-09-23 22:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by axel_jose187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you both can do is sit down and talk things over if he's treating you badly you should call it a day and move on i know it will be hard but time is a great healer my mum is going through the same thing now she broke up with my step dad she was ready to move on when he came back but now he's treating her like dirt and it was getting worse each day so she's just left him.
2006-09-23 22:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by andy j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it sounds like he wants to break up with you again and he sure is coming up with a lame, yet creative way to do so. If he doesn't want you then bolt. Fast! I know this is not the answer you may be looking for, but why waste time on someone who doesn't want you in return? Take the pain and look elsewhere.
2006-09-23 22:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's so indecicive, you need to make the decision to either comfort him and tell him you love him, or throw him out with the recycling. Depends on how patient you are.
2006-09-23 22:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Israely Jew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he may have found someone new..and doesnt have the heart to tell you that he doesnt want to be with you anymore. you should ask him, and find out how he feels and find out why he thinks that someone else will treat you better...if he truly loved you he would be treating you better.
2006-09-23 22:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on Honey
its hard but you can do it, been ther, eat something sweet, love your life and think possitive, do you think you can fight for him? if you can go, but if your pride rises listen.
2006-09-23 22:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's weird and sad. Talk to him and ask what he thinks he's doing to you that isnt good.
I mean, how can you think it's going well
and he doesnt?
2006-09-23 22:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on hes got somthing on the side
2006-09-23 22:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a dirty little trick that guys use, to make sure you want to stay with them. Everything's fine; trust me.
2006-09-23 22:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
call his bluff break up with him.
2006-09-23 22:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋