A man had lived with his partner for almost 20years.They have two 2 sons.His family loved his partner to bits or so it seemed.
She always wanted to get married but his saying was why buy the cow when you're getting free milk.She got fed up so she left with her kids,father has all access to them.Eventually she found herself another man.Now his family are calling her all sorts of dirty names and they are all hostile towards her.Am I to right give her support though I am married to her ex-partners cousin?
2006-09-23 21:58:35 · 20 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you support someone you feel is right or has been wronged. relations aside, do you feel this woman did the right thing or do you think she should have stuck with her man? if u r on her side, then support her and don't mind what ur family or hers says. do what u think is the right thing.
2006-09-23 22:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by bukroot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse you are who is anyone to sit in judgement and cast stones at this woman she has had a tough decision to make and i thnk she made the right one!this man chose to be with her 20 years and she mothered his 2 children and yet he didnt feel her worthy enough to put a ring on her finger!come on if it was you wouldnt u feel completely slighted and unloved by this man.Good on her shes to be commended not ridiculed for her decision!
2006-09-27 12:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by answer me this..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paint, ketchup, paste, mud and many more things are thicker than water along with blood. By common law marriage they are basically married as they lived together for 20 plus years. People are messed up. Leave them alone and move along with your life.
2006-09-23 22:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confusing one which you notice my kinfolk want my sister in regulation, my birthday tom morrow and that i prefer even get a card, permit me clarify my sister in regulation is my husbands niece, she been married to my brother 4 years, myself and my husband been married 28 years tom morrow, and final twelve months each thing went incorrect, my mum and dad mentioned they in no way enjoyed my husband, and all this began whilst she arrived on scene, so possibly blood isn't thicker than water in spite of each thing.
2016-12-18 15:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by maffia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your wrong to give her friendly support. hope his family isnt saying all those hostile things in front of his kids. unless she's done something awful there is nothing wrong with being friends with her. i think once he moves on then the family will get over it.
2006-09-23 22:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What form of support are you offering to her?
If its just spiritual and emotional support then I don't think its a case of blood always being thicker than water.
You should do what your mind and heart tells you to.
Why should we condon bad behaviour?
2006-09-23 22:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r not obviously not in correct. but blood is thiker than water Every Proverb took shape after putting test of essence of experience .
the peternal/ meternal effections generally ,. unless one is sadist or influencd by somemedia etc,. events,. wil come up since blood is thicker.
2006-09-24 01:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by veerabhadrasarma m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can be more of an onlooker then better, she has left her marriage, if u support her u might lose ur's too. it is a hard situation for u, i know, but use wisdom and look before u leap.
2006-09-24 23:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she could do with your support more than ever now.It also sounds as if the man she left took her for granted ,shes made her decision its his lose he had his chance.
2006-09-24 02:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes water can be thicker than blood if you add some corn flour to it... tell the family to go to hell. do you not have a mind of your own that you choose to have as your friend who you want to?
2006-09-23 22:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋