Should I run away and break up with him to protect my heart?
2006-09-23 20:37:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only way past fear is through it, otherwise it is always ligering in front
2006-09-23 20:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie there are never any guarantees in anything especially love. If you keep running from it you wont be happy with that either.
Just take things slow to see if he is what he appears to be, be honest with him and have fun.
Everyone will have a broken heart at some point in there lives it is almost impossible to escape it. He has to feel at least a little of the same or he wouldn't be with you right? Don't let worry or insecurity keep you from loving. You also have to believe in yourself enough to know you deserve this happiness and a good guy, don't sell yourself short.
You never can predict what is in store for you in the future but if he is a good guy and it is a good relationship then stay and see whats happens. You'll be glad you did no matter what the outcome is.
2006-09-23 20:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by SpecialK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must accept that falling in love with someone is a gamble, there are no certainities. If you decide to protect your heart, then you will need to realise that you may never share in love with someone. In taking the chance with love, you may find that special person the first time around or not. You'll never know till you try. When and if love does end, it does hurt but remember you are the only who can decide if the risk is worth it.
I've had my heart broken several times, and each time it doesn't get any easier but I refuse to give up in finding that person who is right for me.
Good luck.
2006-09-23 22:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no...don't run away....falling in love isn't easy especially deeply in love. You have nothing to be scared of. Just go for it, get your love. Protecting your heart means closing yourself from others...and it's not a good thing I'm sure. Just do whatever you want but don't run away.
2006-09-23 20:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no NO! Take a chance - thats what life is about. Falling in love is always uncertain. If you run away from this, can you live with yourself? If things dont work out in the future, then chalk it up as a life lesson, and embrace the fact that you put your entire heart into it. Dont live life being afraid of getting hurt.
If your so deeply in love, enjoy the ride!
2006-09-23 20:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, having your heart broke is one of the best lessons of life! It's different every time, and when it happens you can't figure out why. However as time goes by you can look back and understand the whole lesson learned! Just enjoy it while you can. You can't run from things for the rest of your life.
2006-09-23 20:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by jovi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not...I'm in the same situation and let me tell you...you are taking a risk but its going to be okay...just go with it...what happens, happens.....I thought I should run away but you will only feel like this for a little while then you will realize how much he loves you, and only you....just DONT give up the chance at true love...I didn't and I'm as happy as ever...I hope this helps you and if you want to talk more email me and we can talk chick to chick... sexyindian4you@yahoo.com I hope to hear from you...
Later,
*Duckie*(a name friends gave me..lol..)
2006-09-23 20:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by sk8rchick5511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Only way forward in Love is Go with your Heart!
pain and experience shape us!
Without Pain- How would we learn!
2006-09-23 20:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can never protect your heart either way. breaking up with him doesn't mean that you are protecting your heart, you are only protecting your ego, but either way, you can't protect your heart from breaking.
2006-09-23 20:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking in this way, you have not fallen in love--you are just glad you have found someone, and you are insecure about him leaving you.
2006-09-23 20:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by retorik75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both single, why not give it a try. "It is better to have loved and lost, than not to have loved at all". and I can't think who said this quote.
2006-09-23 20:40:31 · answer #11 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋