2006-09-23 20:27:34 · 17 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We where going out for a year and then like 2 monthes ago she started acting funny. I had notice the signs because she did this to me before. She ended up freaking out on me one day because I didn't want to fight and I told her I dont want to fight I am going home. Then she dumped me. 5 days later she is going out with one of my neighbors. Now she dumped her neighbor and has been back and forth with whether she wants to be with me. Every time things go wrong with us I am always the one running back to her. I really love her though and I really can't imagine being happy without her. She made my days livable and now that she is gone I just dont feel complete.
2006-09-23 20:42:17 · update #1
You go get your woman back, Johnny
2006-09-23 20:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends on the reason she is your ex. If she broke up with you because you did something stupid, an apology might be a good way to start. I'd say pursue the matter, unless there is a restraining order in place. Start with a nice phone call, and ask her out on a no strings date, someplace nice and quiet where the two of you can have a heart to heart talk. If she is amenable to the idea of starting up again, take it slow and don't rush things. If on the other hand, she has decided you just aren't the one for her, you're going to have to adapt and move on with life. Chances are, if she has realized you aren't the one for her, then she isn't the one for you. May not feel like that right now, and you may feel like you'll never be in love again- but given enough time, you will feel differently. So, as I said, if there isn't a restraining order in place- try giving her a call. Asking isn't getting, but you can't get if you don't ask either. Just be prepared for things to go either way, and accept it.
2006-09-24 03:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by The mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER!! DO NOT BE AFRAID COME ON YOU CAN DO IT< JUST TELL HER!!!
Seriously if you are afraid of rejection they ask yourself how will you feel for rest of your life if you never admitted how you really felt.
a guy sent me a card attached to some roses that said something like - it is better to have loved, not have your love returned and fall than to sulk in the depression of knowing you never said anything at all.
Kinda corny (it was sweet though) but you get the point.
2006-09-24 03:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by SpecialK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to move on,unless you knows she feels the same as you.No one wants to get hurt more then they have to.
I would tell her how you feel,although if she is in another relationship I would leave things the way they are.
2006-09-24 03:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by kandn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first think of the reason you two broke up and patch it up..just talk to her and listen to her side then tell her you side of the story...and tell her that she is the one you want...tell her exactly how you feel about her and how you feel around her and how her smile makes you feel...tell her EVERYTHING...I hope this helps you....
Later...
2006-09-24 03:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by sk8rchick5511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait. Let her know you still want her. In three months let her know. In six months. In six years. Of course you may change your mind, but if you don't, and if its meant to be, she'll eventually come around.
2006-09-24 03:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go back to her!
2006-09-24 03:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot called her ex if she is the girl you want! Go ahead!!!!
2006-09-24 03:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel free to tell your emotions to her and enjoy the life with her.it will sure work as it did with mine.
2006-09-24 03:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Saurav G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, Get someone better.
2006-09-24 03:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Slaide2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋