Where do lesbians find their dates? I will NOT use online personals ads, they're dangerous. I prefer not to go to bars because I always end up dancing alone/drinking alone. I also REALLY prefer not to date drug-addicts, and quite frankly that's all I can ever find. So, where DO other lesbians find their dates?
2006-09-23 20:10:41 · 9 answers · asked by cyanne2ak 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay folks, NO BARS, NO INTERNET SITES.
I belong to 4 lesbian organizations that are local. I'm active in the "community".
Any other ideas?
2006-09-23 20:24:14 · update #1
gay naborhoods (yes they exist)
2006-09-23 20:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by Enthusiast 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Normally they are being set up by their fellow lesbian friends or by lucky chance, they have common friends to begin with whom will introduce them to each other during social gatherings and the like.
Most of the lesbian couples I am friends with (which relationships lasted up to this date) have started dating since their highschool and/or college years. Some would also meet in the office, since even if they're discreet enough, it'll take one lesbian to know another. Some just bump into each other in lesbian based organizations (which there are atleast once in each state, you just have to be resourceful enough to find it and be a member of).
Take your pick. Goodluck! =)
2006-09-24 03:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a college's Gay and Lesbian Association.
At the Gym.
2006-09-24 03:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mannie-mannie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a lesbians bar in my town that is where I found my partner.
2006-09-25 20:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by lesbian and proud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in chat rooms or try out the bars
2006-09-24 03:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by mark 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lesbian chat sites, les/gay parades is a goop option to find friends.
2006-09-24 03:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by singh_upender 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wake up and smell the coffee.... the same way a gay meets a gay and the same way a man meets a women.
2006-09-24 03:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
bars,clubs and social events.
2006-09-24 03:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Slaide2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um... keep trying them bars!
2006-09-24 03:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋