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Question

i asked a question and most couldnt answer it correctly. i said why do most men treat good women badly. all i got was women do it to and all men are not like that. i never asked about what women did and i didnt say all men i said most. so why you people cant answer a question. stop beating around the bush and just answer the quetion. then someone said i must date most men. thats crazy and stupid. i

Answer 1

They are selfish pricks? That and if she is a good women most men think they don't deserve her so they try to push her away before she can them. They also can take advantage of her "goodness" so to speak in that they know she will forgive them because of her kind generous spirit. Oh also I have noticed that a lot of men have some real serious issues with women, like they treat them all like crap, they use and abuse, throw em aside like yesterdays garbage, even call them B's (with an itch) all the time.
Most men though treat women bad because women let them. If women everywhere just refused absolutely REFUSED to take there crap, the whole world would change, I believe that sincerely.

Answer 2

I think the point that person was making was that if you apparently KNOW how 'most' men behave, you must DATE most of them. It's called 'sarcasm'.

The fact is that 'most' men don't treat women badly. A few do, and the women they hurt tend to be the kind of women who get involved with this kind of man over and over again. To them therefore, it SEEMS as though it's 'most' men who are like this. Get it now?

As for why SOME men treat women badly, it's because SOME men (like SOME women) are screwed up in the way they treat people in general. It's the way they were brought up, usually, and it comes out particularly strongly in their romance relationships.

Ok now? Can we move on?

Answer 3

Grass looks greener on the other side of the pasture... though it always turns out to be a wild goose chase. More one tries to tread over to the greener pasture, more distant it becomes.

The tragedy is that such men get distorted and tend to lose their way in life. They start treating their good women badly. However, some learn through their follies and do come back to apologize and start afresh never to turn around.

Answer 4

That is a hard question. I think men treat good women badly because maybe they are jealous when think that their women will treat the others (especially guys) as good as when she treats him then....they getting rude with those women just because they want to be the only one to get that perfect manner from their good women and so.... they become bad men who treat women badly.... I think so....

Answer 5

Men can never treat you bad if you dont let them. Make sure you know what behavior is unacceptable to you and then communicate it properly. Women allow men to treat them wrong when they get into this tunnel where this one guy is all they can see. I suggest date a lot of guys so you can stay focused and keep your emotions in check. This way you wont be dependent on one person for affection and wont take crap from anyone. :)

Answer 6

Maybe some good women tend to gravitate toward the wrong type of men. Once a person falls into a pattern and doesn't recognise it, it stays a pattern. A lot has to do with what type of parents they had also.

Answer 7

Well, some guys treat women badly because they are unappriative of what they have. Or all that they want is sex, nothing emotional. Not all guys are like this, but there are enough bad ones to give guys a bad name.

Answer 8

You want the honest Truth.Most men are lame and stuck on themselves.When they find a good woman.They really do not know what to do.So they take advantage of real love.It makes men sick.Those type of men.make men like me look bad.What is really bad is they make the good woman.Hide their true selves.Good luck on your quest for the right answer

Answer 9

easy to many act like your mother and no one wants to date their mother.
Personally I haven't met a good women. most act nice in the beginning and then transform in to super B I T C H. they like saying " If you don't like it you can leave". So I leave.
and probably is that good women date jerks for their looks or money and don't date nice guys. The same thing goes for nice guys. We seem to date loser women and then complain we can't find good women.
Men and Women don't get along.

Answer 10

Because some men are not raised to respect women and mostlikely they grew up in a household with an abusive parent