My ex bf is still in love with me, and i am recently engaged to a fantastic guy. I love him to death. I just dont understand why my ex still loves me. He said he cant move on bc i still have his heart. I dont know what to do. I already said we could be friends n if ne thing happened to me and my fiance(hopefully nothing will) id think about going back to him. But he wants me to talk in person n I dont know how to give his heart back...ive tried tellin him i dont love him even tho i did once. Someone please help without being rude.
2006-09-23 20:03:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He needs to say good bye and so do you !
2006-09-23 20:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you worry too much about the ex you will cause trouble with your fiance. Tell him you can't give back what you no longer have. you can't let him control you. It's up to you to control the situation. Tell him that you don't think that the friendship is going to work out ,because he has not come to terms with the break up and that you no longer love him in that way. You have to be blunt but be nice at the same time and that is the hard part.
2006-09-24 03:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never told him that you would think about giving him a 2nd chance if things dont work with you and your fiance.This give him hope and thats all a man needs to stick around.I assume you dont love him because you told him you dont so why would you tell him you might give him a 2nd chance when you know you wont or are you confused?
You need to look into your heart and think about this good.Dont play with your exes heart and mind. Tell him its over,you do not love him,your sorry but he needs to except it and move on with his life.Then if you have to call the cops that hes stalking you.
2006-09-24 03:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by rock_roll_musicman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still can love him without hurting him by introducing your fiance (your fantastic guy) to him. Have a drink together and sort out the difference between the 2 guys. Give them equal judgements: the most important for you is to practise LOVE one another!
2006-09-24 03:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to move on. This is not your problem and could drag you into being unfaithful to your current man. Let him move on. Remember, you have nothing to hide from your fiancee.. so make sure every converstaion you have with your ex,you would be comfortable having your fiancee overhear. This will keep your consicence clear. by talking to your ex about this, you are letting him lean on you emotionally. He needs to move on without you. You cannot do it for him
2006-09-24 03:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your destined to be with someone else, and I still love or like you as a good friend as we'll always be :)
2006-09-24 03:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋