Ladies, how do you decide whether you'd like to meet a guy if you're on online dating? what are the things that you're looking for?
2006-09-23 19:47:52 · 7 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Computer chemistry....are u comfortable talking to one another, does he give u straight forward answers when u ask a question, does he have a sense of humor. If he tells u his place of work or a home phone number, its a safe bet hes not married. If u decide to meet, do so in a public place, during daylight hours,perhaps for lunch or a cup of coffee. Face to face conversation reveals more of ur personalities, gives both of u a chance to decide if u want to continue into dating. Have fun, but be careful.
2006-09-23 20:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for at least a bit of intelligence- if the profile is written like a first grader I pass over the profile. If the guy has a variety of interests in life that is good. If he is climbing mountians & bikes 100 miles daily, runs every morning 10 miles, honey......he is either on speed or his is talking about his life 20 years ago. If he is too depressed or too happy you gotta wonder. If his picture look like it was taken in 1972, then he probably doesn't look anything like that now or he is very poor at styles. haha! If a guy talks sex right off that is a huge red flag. If he says no one likes him, you gotta wonder why. If he falls quickly for you, again you gotta wonder why. If he lives 2,000 miles from you, you gotta wonder why NO One locally is dating him.
Most important is that if you are going to meet. Meet in day light. Meet at a very busy place. Don't tell where you live and never get in a car with a guy you don't know. don't make big plans. Start with lunch or coffee. If things go well you can always spend more time together. Long days or movies or things that would be painful if there is no connection......avoid these.
any guy who moves on you too quickly is desperate so avoid him.
A guy who is worth seeing, will be thoughtful and not rush things.
2006-09-23 20:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't date someone online until I've spent a lot of time getting to know them first. Both of us have to be comfortable chatting and then comfortable on the phone before I would decide a meeting would be good. Both women and men need to be very cautious about meeting though.
2006-09-23 20:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Buttercup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are generally deciding to get date raped when they want to meet-up with a person they met online.
2006-09-23 19:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Wai 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I'm desperate!
Haha!
Kidding...
If he seems genuine, nice, he calls me, we have things in common, he is respectful, he agrees to meet me in a public space, he hasn't got a bad past (like murder, rape, etc), has given me his real name and doesn't live too far away!
2006-09-24 20:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing that you need is a good personality, be fun outgoing and love life, no one wants to date a downer and i don't know don't be cheesy or corney because that is a major turn off.. just be yourself
2006-09-23 19:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by kalynn h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better if you date someone common friends know.
2006-09-23 19:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋