But I don't think he even knows I exist! How do I get him to notice me?
2006-09-23 19:38:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can join organizations or events which you feel he'd also be a member or attendee of OR arrange you schedule in such a way that he'd be your classmate in atleast one class. Just try to be as visible to him as possible without making it appear you're stalking him or something to that effect. The 'coincidences' should look as if you just have the same hobbies and interests. That's a good start then.
To be discreet, you can let a boy friend befriend him and get him to a small talk where dating topic can possibly pop out. You can also get your friends to invite him to a gathering and make them ask if he's bringing anybody. if he says he'd probably be alone, you can let your friends 'force' him into taking a blind date, which is you.
Once he notices you and you are able to successfully talk to him (as in just the two of you even if you're surrounded by friends), start with questions about how he normally spends his free days. If he says he'd watch a movie, enumarate some movies currently shown and say that you wanted to see a movie which you feel he might also want to see. Things like that can get you a date with him INDIRECTLY.
Just try not to appear too straightforward about your attraction on him. Anyway, you can probably read between the lines in your conversation if he's also as interested. Most importantly, BE sincere, cool and confident all the time... you might even be noticed by a hotter guy than your crush. =)
2006-09-23 19:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get it over with and go make the first move! Start by saying hi, ask question about the class, ask about the day, about how hard the class is if you or him need any help. Ask if he'd help you or visa versa I'd be impressed if a girl was actually interested in me and that they made the first move. if you don't he'll just find some else.
2006-09-24 02:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by killswitch127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it might be a little daring thing to do but go for it girl cause this is the shortest possible path. just go up to him and tell that you have got feelings for him and whether he wants to put up a relationship with you. if he says yes then you got a bright future ahead. if he says no then he might already be in some relationship. so go find some one else. this world is full of guys like me looking out for some beautiful girl like you. i hope you will find someone else soon.
wish you all the best.
2006-09-24 02:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by Cool Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, as much as I'm sure you've heard it before. If you just need to get to the point that he even sees you, then accidentally bump into him or something. Some schools are so large that he may not really see you. Besides that, I think it's all you can do.
2006-09-24 02:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, here is a an original thought: Just walk up to him and introduce yourself.
2006-09-24 02:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if this guy really wants you he would notice you!be yourself
2006-09-24 02:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by MCRmy Penguin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to your house, show him your boobs.
2006-09-24 02:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by existenceisrelative 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if you can suck his -dick-
2006-09-24 02:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by ite hear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋