that I will be single forever? I broke up w/my boyfriend of 5 years around easter time and it just seems like all the decent guys my age or older are taken. Do you all think it's too late to find a decent guy? I don't want to old up an old spinster! : ( What do you all think?
2006-09-23 19:14:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHA A prostitute! That was funny.
2006-09-23 19:18:39 · update #1
Sometimes many of us do not realise the reason why we face some troubles in our lives. Just do a deep soul-search exercise and take a self-survey from those who know you very well, discover who you are, then improve on your strong points while you drop all the weak ones.
With prayers, the next man that comes your way will not only be a Good Guy but will stay with you for 5 X 5 X 5 years!
2006-09-23 19:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by GQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. You are young, enjoy it while it lasts. My great grandma had a new boyfriend in her 80's. Both of my parents remarried in their 50's. I'm sure you are going to be fine.
And here's what I wrote in response to a somewhat similar question, hope it can give you some hope.
I'm 28, and it was just recently that I found someone I could have a serious relationship with. Before this, I had been single for 3 years, then had a year long relationship (that should have never been a relationship anyway) and then was single again for another year. And the shi* I've seen guys pull - I can't even believe it, or begin to tell you. I remember so many times I'd see a couple together and think how crazy and miraculous that was - to find someone who you liked, AND who liked you too (and who wasn't just plain nuts). It seemed unattainable and foreign.
It isn't though, it just takes time. And maybe internet dating?
2006-09-24 02:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think that you are being a little quick to panic at 25? No it is not too late to find someone at your age. If you think about it, you are never too late to find someone at any age. It is too late or you are too old to find someone when you are dead and buried.
I am 36 and single. I know where you are coming from. Even at my age I have not lost belief that I will find someone some day. Yes, I get lonely at times. Yes, I some days feel as though I am very unappreciated by the opposite sex. I do know that I will find someone in my life someday.
I just adopt an attitude that until I find Ms. Right, have fun with a few Ms. Wrongs. There are single guys out there where you live. Best thing you can do for yourself is to network and get out more. I am sure you have friends who can hook you up.
A wise man once said, "It is better to die a lonely old person than to live life with someone who will make you miserable."
2006-09-24 02:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find your way and you'll find a deserving guy. Just don't look too hard. Don't get a boyfriend just for having one. That will not work. If you're not on the look out (or hunt:) ), it might just happen at a moment you least expect it. Never give up. You're too young to give up anyway.
2006-09-24 02:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait another 5 years and u will not even care....u will enjoy being single..that anyone who express interest on u will be perceived as an intruder...LOL..i have a boyfriend but ...we are both professionals who dont have much time for each other.....i have more free time than him.....but when we see each other...i still get hot and bothered and vice versa... but.....i still enjoy my life on my own....so dont feel that way.....dont u watch sex and the city? u can be happy without a man in ur life (wait....is this the plot of this show)
2006-09-24 02:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
join Yahoo Personals. Some great guys there.
It is just hard to find quality guys as we age, but they are definatly there. Never give up
2006-09-24 02:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same concern like mine...lol
i'm 27 now still single, unattached. hmmm
but i'm not ugly either,(sigh)
i'll put ur question on my watchlist n i'll see the answers u'll get.
cheers to both of us!lmao
2006-09-24 02:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in you have your hole life to go thy are out Thar you will find 1 or 2 in time good luck to you
2006-09-24 02:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 25, you make it sound like you are over the hill, my son is 25...........and not married!
2006-09-24 02:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by pirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should become a prostitute
2006-09-24 02:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by kuama1 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋