see i love this girl but she with some one
2006-09-23 19:03:49 · 12 answers · asked by rob l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend, do you love her so much that you are willing to go to the ends of the earth, fight all the demons in hell, walk on water for her? Or do you have a big crush on a hot babe? The answer is that if she is with someone else, either as in Married, or engaged , than back off. If She is in a casual relationship, and there is no true commitment, and she is at all interested in you than tell her how you feel. if she reciprocates the feeling, than let her work out the details. If not, move on man. There are lots of single, unattached, and beautiful intelligent ladies out there, looking for an intelligent guy who is mature enough to know what he wants, and smart enough to know when to look in other places. If she is already deep into a relationship, you will only hurt your self to pine over her. Good Luck!.
2006-09-23 19:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by stevensings20032001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello- you could love this person,as a friend, because if there in a relationship, you do not, no. how strong her feeling's, are for this person. and how much, she loves this individual. and you never know whether you'll have a chance, so if your in love, love her at a distance. and as a friend. that way, you want get hurt, and if it's meant to be. it'll happen.
2006-09-24 02:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by nisey 168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a self abuser the situation is perfect for you. even if you were able to convince this girl to leave who she is with now and get with you, you will fear that she may do the same thing to you one day. there are to many available girls that need the attention of a bright young man like you. do not waste your time or energy on a whim that will probably end in frustration.
2006-09-24 02:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not healthy to. Either tell her and see is she is feeling the same thing. Or get a reality check, and realize you deserve to love some one who will and does love you back and will be with you and only you.
2006-09-24 02:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its ok. society makes you believe you MUST get married and MUST settle down, and we do that USUALLY with the first person we bond with. this is premature, and its the reason divorces are up so much. falling in love only happens with the right match. it could be your best friends girl. or, the guy next door. its ok, but acting on it may be something different...
2006-09-24 02:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by abcdgoodall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be in love with her. But it would be wrong to interfere with her relationship. And if she would react to you while she's in her relationship, wouldn't that possibly happen with the next guy when she's with you? Love her, be her friend, but don't interfere. If it is meant to be it will happen in time anyway.
2006-09-24 02:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ok!!! coz u know what? iv been there & its soo complicated... u wouldn't want that... well, days ago iv broken up with this guy & he's married!!! its really tough & you just got to be tougher...
sometimes... sometimes in life, love isn't enough to make you happy & make a relationship works....
im still dealing with living my life without him....
id like to think that iv helped u in some ways though....
2006-09-24 02:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by im_a_tsik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can love anyone you want. but it does not mean she loves you back and how can you love a person you have not even dated or been with and I do not mean sexually. if she is with someone else, then how do you know its love. you must be a teenager in love......
2006-09-24 02:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. Move on to love someone who love you and you love. Then develop further.
2006-09-24 02:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a matter if it's ok....you love her, and you can't help that.
2006-09-24 02:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋