Let's say the previous 3 years, the Valentine's Day cards were romantic. I want to read your answers (from both men and women -- for different perspectives) because Christmas is coming, and I don't want to give this person an inappropriate gift. THX!
2006-09-23 18:54:34 · 21 answers · asked by avab2u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a male and I say that the friendship card means that either he is not ready for a sustained comitted relationship with you or he doesn't want a sustained comitted relationship with you ever and is just enjoying all of the benefits that you have as friends and as boyfriend girlfriend, mainly I mean sex but other things too
2006-09-23 18:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of these answers are making out that the poor guy has put some thought into buying the card.. Men do not put any thought into buying Valentine cards.. they buy them because they know how much grief they are going to get if they don't bother.. just go and checkout the newsagent on Valentines day morning, loads of men buying up the cards .. trust me I'm right..(I've been there!!) he just went in and got you the one with a nice picture.. real men don't read the message, and if you got flowers with the card I bet they came from the petrol station.
2006-09-24 02:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you this...Paul has got it absolutely right from a male perspective. He's completely stolen my thunder!
All you have to do is wait till next Valentines Day and if you get a "Get Well" card or an unused Christmas Card, you'll know Paul's right.
Have a nice day!
2006-09-24 03:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by brainyandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to re-think the relationship in terms of "Is this his way of telling me that he doesn't feel the same way and would only like to be friends"? If this is the way he feels, maybe he can't come out and tell you so he assumes you will get the drift by the card. Just come out and ask him "what's the deal?" Are we still a couple of lovers or are we simply just a couple of friends - what changed and if something did change - when was it and why didn't I know it? Get the truth out of him now or you may get hurt much more later on.
2006-09-24 02:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by missvickisue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a gurl. for me if a guy give me a friendship card on valentine's day, that mean the guy just wanna b my friend. not more than that. if he wanna b my special 1 of course he will give me a valentine's card and a gift such as roses or chocolate or something like that. but in th special day he just give me a friendship card so it totally mean that he really just wanna b my truely friend. mayb the guy just wanna me to know that the 3 years just time for us 2 know each other.
2006-09-24 02:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by timun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal,, stop scratching your head too much,, you have known this guy for 3 years,, i bet you know him better than anyone else,,, what do you really want to hear from others, because gal you have all the answers..think about your relationship, how it has been, how do you relate, has he changed in the way he treats you.
guys come from Jupiter, he probably just didn't think much when he picked the card!imagine if he actually didn't buy you one?
just sit him down and tell him what you feel,how you felt about the card thing,, and i am sure you will get sorted..
i wish you all the best,,
2006-09-24 06:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by wendy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmn.. I think he didn't really pay much attention to the message of the V-card he gave you. If you want to give him something for Christmas, give him something you feel you want him to have. Something you know would tell him how much you feel about him afterall these years. But don't.. base your gift or card on the V-card he gave you. I always think it's best to do one's best before giving up. =)
2006-09-24 08:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by boongaii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It mostly likely means one of two things. 1) He doesn't know how to express his feelings for you and thought it would be romantic to tell you that you are his best friend and he meant it well. 2) He isn't sure how he feelings in the relationship anymore and didn't want to say something that he didn't feel. Honestly, you would have to ask him about it.
2006-09-24 02:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lord Draven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants 2 break up but doesnt kno how 2 say it so he givs u a card so u can figure it out by urself.The good(or bad) thing bout it is that he wants 2 be friends not lovers,he wants 2 date different people now.
2006-09-24 01:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by detroit_lady313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he is giving you a hint to move on so i would take it .the good news is if your young ,slim and attractive i am free at present ,but if your a bit of a moose like i expect don,t bother .now wipe away those tears and put the bag back on your head.
2006-09-24 06:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋