well....technically she is still 12 bc of her birthday but anyways.....should they have sex?he really loves her. he doesnt wanna hurt her at all & he want to be with her forever.he dont want her to leave him and he dont want to leave her.what should they do? he want to have sex with her and im sure she wants to have sex with him also...
the guy is my bff...i've known him more then 14 yrs
2006-09-23 18:51:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
opps...she is not 20!she is 13!!!
2006-09-23 18:53:07 · update #1
she is 13!!!!!
2006-09-23 18:53:27 · update #2
13!!!!!!!!
2006-09-23 18:53:54 · update #3
accidents happen...it aint 20..its 13..to be more accurate she is 12
2006-09-23 18:55:04 · update #4
she did not lie about her age..i just typed it wrong(wasnt paying attention)
2006-09-23 18:58:50 · update #5
Tell you friend to give you the address of the prison he will be living at for a while...
2006-09-23 19:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is the girl 20 or 12? When she's 20 they can make up their own minds and don't need any advice from anybody. They will know whether they are ready or not.
But when she's 12: STAY AWAY FROM HERE! It's still a child. He shouldn't even be dating her.now. Wait 6 years and if they both still feel the same than start dating (or marry because if they would still feel the same that would be very special anyway)
2006-09-24 01:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. He is 19 and she is 12?!? If that is the case, you need to advise him to get away from that girl at once. The sooner the better. Fornicating a 12 or 13 year old is illegal in most places. Unless he wants to be the belle of the prison shower, he needs to find some his own age. Now!
2006-09-24 02:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're his Best friend why do you have the facts all screwed up? If this girlfriend of his is 13, a young teenager and he's 20 then it's STATUTORY RAPE...ALL SAID AND DONE AND HE SHOULD BE ARRESTED.
If he has sex with her, he's only thinking about himself and doesn't really care about her. He should give her a chance to become a young woman before destroying her emotionally....as a woman at least she'll have some strength to endure when he up and leaves.
2006-09-24 02:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Vera W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Backhand him back into reality, 19 and 13 is too big a difference and he could get into some serious problems if police find out. If she was at least 15-16 I would say to let it slide, but 13 is too naive.
2006-09-24 02:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by zooba 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
totally wrong. a 50 yr old dating a 42 yr old is ok. therre is so much difference between a 13 yr old and a 20 yr old girl. The only commonality is that both girls have girl parts. This is the only possible reason for that guy to want to dater that girl. It is impossible for them to connect on any real personal level.
2006-09-24 01:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler1032 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
let me see:
a 12 years old girl has lied about her age, claiming to be twenty.
her 19 years age boyfriend wants to have sex with her?
the guy is your bmf (best male friend)
mmmm, tough call.
ok, she is 12 going on 13.
no, sex is unacceptable.
your male friend needs to grow up now.
2006-09-24 01:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is your boy friend? Well say best of luck and get as far away from them as you can you deserve better. Sex is for marriage anyways
2006-09-24 01:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they cant have sex at all,she is a minor & its an offense to do it with a minor
he could end up in jail for years
2006-09-24 02:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by liz c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK Wait... she is 20, but actually 12??????? I am so confused on this one... please reword your question!
ok, so she's 13... NO they should NOT sleep together... he could and should go to jail!!!
2006-09-24 01:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Little Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋