Sorry if you just read this, but this is so important to me I want as many responses as I can get, so...
I almost dropped the "L" word on the gf for the first time last night and in hindsight wish I would have. It was a very good/positive emotional moment. Question: should I wait for another similar moment or does it matter? Can I drop it out of the blue and still have a positive effect? I have told women I love them before (and thought I meant it), but have never felt anything close to what I feel for her now and want to get this right.
2006-09-23 18:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you mean it, then i think just go with oyur gut and if you think the moment is right, say it. don't make a huge production or stress yourself out, go with your heart, thats what the entire situation is about in the first place!
2006-09-23 18:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by los ollie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when to tell her. Follow your instincts. My boyfriend hasn't gotten to "I love you" yet, since we've only been together a few weeks, but he went for it when we had our first kiss and it was the sweetest thing anyone has ever done and I will always remember it. Good luck!
2006-09-24 01:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for another special moment when you know you'll get a good response. that way, you wont catch her off guard and feel like an idiot if she responds awkwardly. it would just make things easier for you.
2006-09-24 01:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying "I love you" is putting yourself in the submissive role for the rest of your life.
Every man knows this. Women don't respect wimps.
Stiffen up, amigo.
2006-09-24 02:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any time would be a good time to really tell her how you feel....it doesn't matter when or where you tell her....as long as you do
2006-09-24 01:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Baby Dory*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋