I'm looking for some good ways to discipline your girlfriend when you are out in public and she is moody or acts up. Sometimes girls think they won't be punished if they are out in public. For instance, last time my girlfriend acted up i threatened her with the belt and some jerk told me if I ever hit her with the belt he would call the police. I'm basically looking for discreet methods to bring her in line in which I can give her "the look" and she will know I have the power to do something about it even if we are in public.
2006-09-23 18:39:48 · 21 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't call me names! Just answer the question!
2006-09-23 18:45:37 · update #1
man you can't be physical with a gal in public.
2006-09-23 18:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by singh_upender 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The BEST thing you can do is take a good long look in the mirror. WHO do you think you are, that you should "discipline" a wife or girlfriend? Do you think of her as a child? As a pet? If either answer is YES, then you have some serious problems. I suggest counselling. And as for the belt thing...it sounds like you really have some serious problems. As far as "the look", it only works if there is RESPECT, which obviously you know nothing about. You should never have the "power" to do something towards another human being that involves totally humiliating her, ESPECIALLY in public. Dude, you need some serious help! If I were your wife/girlfriend, I'd be dropping you so fast it would make your head spin. You would not be in control of the situation whatsoever, you would be helpless to it.
2006-09-23 20:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Giovanni 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why don't you get a taser gun? You're girlfriend or wife are not children. You simply communicate with her and tell her something irritated you and why. Ask her politely to stop doing it. And the next time she does it point it out to her. Eventually she will become more aware of it and try her best to stop. Unless she doesn't care. But I would say the better question would be what is the best way that she can discipline you so you stop being a jerk. You should also be asking yourself why you are so lucky to even have someone in your life who cares for you since it sounds like you treat her like a child. Grow up!
2006-09-23 18:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi- are you her man or her parent's . frist of all if someone is acting up, there may be a reason. for this . have you ever tried asking, she may just want, to spend time,with you only. quality time, and don't want to. be in the public eyes. or may not like crowds. but as for, you to punish her, sit down talk, try to make some sense. of the situation, and if you can't see eye to eye. then to every problem,is a solution. do not go out in the public anymore with her. and if it's a problem so much. then why are you, still there. it shouldn't result to confusion. try talking. asking what's the problem.
2006-09-23 18:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no right to "discipline" your partner. She's not your child, she should be your equal. I hope someone does call the police on you if you're threatening her with a belt. You sound like a bully instead of a man.
2006-09-23 23:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a girlfriend or your child? First of all if my husband ever had the gall to threaten me with a belt he would probably get slapped. We are equals and neither of us has the right to disipline each other, that's what you do with your children. Maybe you should check in to getting some counseling because sounds like you have control issues or prehaps you should stop dating children.
2006-09-24 00:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by razadaz1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best action is no action just ignore her and when she gets home just talk about it! If it really gets out of hand out there then cut your loses and put an end to the date or night out and the talk about it the next day! communicatuion is the key!
2006-09-23 18:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by vampfire7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to call you any names, but I have to ask you this. If you like to physically hit girls, I would find one who hits back. It sounds like whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If hitting girls is the only way of you paying attention to them, maybe that's why she does it. Sounds pretty sick to me. I can't imagine why this woman is even with you.
2006-09-23 19:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by missvickisue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women, girlfriend or wife, they are not a piece of property! It sounds like you need to go back to your cave!! Last time I checked, women can do whatever the hell they want. If they are stupid enough to let you do **** like that, then that's their fault. If you hit a girl/women, she needs to find a way to kick your *** so that you'll realize the only person your in charge of is yourself. It sounds like you're not even doing well w/that either! Have you ever heard of a power trip...
2006-09-23 18:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Should teach her how to self respect - teach at home not in public
2006-09-23 18:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋