He talks to you online like hes known you forever. yet he hasnt SPOKEN to you in real life. he sees you in the halls and he looks to the floor. he stares at you in class and talks to everyone but you.. i want to know him more.. i think im going to ask him to study with me. but thing is he makes it clear he needs help so i cant say i need help. yet would it be weird if i offered to help? what should i do?
2006-09-23 18:36:49 · 10 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he maybe doesn't know how to approach girls. Some guys struggle with this. maybe some of them are scared that they might be rejected. when he looks like he needs help, maybe he wants you to ask him but it could back fire and it might make him look bad. I knew a guy that was shy and he was in class with me and he asked if we could study together. This turned out not to be only studying but getting to know each other better. Try to develop a friendship with him first get to know him better. Who knows he might open up a little and not be so shy.
2006-09-23 18:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by sandysweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their usually real sweet, can't talk very much, once you find something in common, it will break the ice. Great guys, but they are fragile. You can hurt their feelings easily. Be patient and gentle and they will give you the world!
2006-09-24 01:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy guys get flattered by a girl asking them out,or for help ,or to give help,open the playing field,go for it!
2006-09-24 01:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by myke4urnot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and start talking to him, give him a sign, a pretty obvious one that you like him, shy guys can gain confidence, we just need a boost to do so
2006-09-24 02:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just ask him out on a study date? you can help him and still get to hang out.
2006-09-24 01:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and ask. He is afraid of rejection
2006-09-24 01:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him at school even if he ignrores you cuz maybe by you talking to him....it'll give him more confidence to talk to you
2006-09-24 01:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Baby Dory*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt think he is good enough for you.
2006-09-24 01:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer help.
2006-09-24 01:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help him honey
2006-09-24 01:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋