im in love with my fiance but i still love my ex wat should i do
2006-09-23 18:31:56 · 18 answers · asked by Brenda A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Marry your fiance. Your ex is your ex and is your ex for a reason.
2006-09-23 18:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it Slow... and don't tell anybody...but it's to late now.
Some things are best kept to yourself. How do you think your Fiance' will feel knowing that you're still in Love with your EX and why would you make her your Fiance' knowing that you're still in Love with someone else?.
2006-09-24 01:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Vera W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make up your mind and choose. If you are getting married, but in the back of your mind you still want another man, then do not get married as it will end up only in despair or you wanting a taste of what you could have had. You have to weigh your options, of course even if you care for both there is still a string of difference. You have to ask yourself whom do you foresee yourself with in the next five years or so? Whom would you like to be with if life throws difficulties and trials upon both of you, your ex or your fiance? Whom would you like to stick with in rough times? whom would you like to hold on to when you want to cry or vent? Whom would you like to grow old with? A lot of questions that you have to ask yourself but make room for no man in your heart aside from the one whom you truly love and who loves you in return.
2006-09-24 03:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chose one or the other and forget about the other one. when you broke up with your ex, i dont think you were ready to. why did you guys break up anyway? did he do something to hurt you? or did you do something to hurt him? if he hurt you, i wouldnt take him back, he will do it again in the future. if youre having feelings for some other guy DO NOT get married to your fiance. you arent ready for that kind of commitment if youre willing to love some other guy besides your husband.
2006-09-24 01:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up w/ ur fiance. if you stay w/ him/ her and you end up marry them, how will you love the person fully if you're still longing for someone else? you'd just being lying to yourself and everyone else. but if you do break up w/ ur fiance, make sure your ex still loves you first, or you'll end up with no one.
2006-09-24 01:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to understand what it it that you like in you present fiance and what is that holding you with your ex? Can't you just be friends?
Try to figure out who values you more. Do they know each other? I hope it is not a competition who will get you?
Svetlana
2006-09-24 01:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by Svetlana G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well leave your ex out of this you have a new leash on life gurl so be happy and dont ruin your chances with this new guy leave the ex only it will make you confused it still be good as friends though
2006-09-24 01:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by shotgunblues_98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One broken relationship. Is the fiance also broken? You need to postpone your wedding until you work on your current relationship better, and then you'll know.
2006-09-24 01:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is to remember what the X did to become the X in the first place. If you let yourself forget that, you will be setting yourself up for something very painful.
2006-09-24 01:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Queen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you told me ex so let it be look forward not back go on with your life and have a good one good luck to you
2006-09-24 01:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋