and do you still have feelings for them? If yes, WHY???
2006-09-23 18:12:19 · 21 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy question. A woman I thought was the love of my life and was about to marry 10 years ago cheated on me right before we were supposed to get married. Needless to say the marriage was called off and abandoned. LOL. I sometimes like to tell people that I was a Jerry Springer episode before Jerry Springer was Jerry Springer. LOL
Do I have feelings for this woman? Not really. I used to have bad feelings for her. Now I could care less. I am not going to let some woman who obviously didn't want me 100% hook me like that. I have no need to maintain contact with her because there is no kid involved thankfully.
2006-09-23 18:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he broke up w/ me bc i moved away even though i was willing to try a long distance relationship... but we were still friends so we talked on the phone all the time... then he'd start in w/ 'mind games' such as saying things like "i still love you" "maybe we can get back together in the future" then he'd turn around and say "just move on! i don't feel the same anymore - i just want to be friends." - then again a few weeks later - "i think i might still love you" then to top this all off he told me that he thought my best friend (that still lived where he was) was cute and that he might have a crush on her. so i asked her opion on that bc being best friends we were open and honest w/ each other - she said i didn't have to worry bc she knew how much i still loved him and that she didn't like him like that - and that even if she did she wouldn't do anything bc she wouldn't do that to her best friend.... but my ex ended up dateing her (and they still are) my ex ruined a wonderful friendship and played mind games... and a lot more to be honest.... do i still have feelings for him tho? - - - yeah i think i still love him even though he did all that... i don't know why i do - but i do... and i wish i didn't..... it might be bc he helped me to trust again (when we first started going out) and he showed me that even though i'm overweight i can be loved too... he brought me back to God as well.... i was a better person with him... i had better self esteem and was more out going........ even though i'm still this way i have him to thank for it.... (i know i'm crazy for still loving him)
2006-09-23 18:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by xSublimeSorrowx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we had a daughter and 2 yrs later she got pregnant by my best friend. she begged for my forgiveness and wanted me to stay with her. so i did and 2 weeks after the baby was born she left with another man and married him. then she took my daughter and moved half way across the country. i didn't see her for 6yrs, then she got a divorice and moved back and wanted to make up. i told nicely no, because i didn't want her taking off again with my daughter
again. when my daughter left i was her hero, the greatest thing ever, when they came back she didn't know me. we still have a hard time communicating, her mom told her i left her and cheated on her.
2006-09-23 18:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flipped my car off a bridge into a lake with all my best tapes in the glovebox,right after I found the pawn ticket where she pawned my great grandmothers pearl neckage and wedding ring,so she could buy her dope.And yes i still have feelings for her.HATE
2006-09-23 18:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by jgmafb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex doesn't pay child support but calls me to tell me he pays for his other kids (they aren't his).He owes a lot of support...he never calls on the right day for birthdays if he remembers..NOT really..he was a friend for years..and I have the best kids ever so I'm torn..I feel sorry for him
2006-09-23 18:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she waited till i was married o someone else to let me know that the child i thought was mine isnt but it wasnt a legal matter her parents were well off and chose to exclude me from the boy's life she sent an e pic from time to time but when she told me she also said she wanted me back in her life and that she loved me.. after 16 yrs almost,,, and no, i a happy with the woman i am with but it tears me up the lil boy isnt mine,,,kinda wanted a son real bad like...
2006-09-23 18:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this one wasn't to me but to my best friend. his ex dumped him on valentines day the minute after he gave her a present that he spent a week thinking and preparing and costs $210. lol, he hates her guts right now but he says that there were still those days when he misses the things they did together.
2006-09-23 18:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by dharken2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he started dating his new crush less than a day after we broke up and the two of them took every opportunity to be standing near me or right behind me so i'd see them when i turned around. then he started hanging out right next to my locker for no reason, and when i changed lockers and a different route to exit the school he changed his route to follow me! it was just so wonderful, NOT! felt like i had my own personal stalker, go me!!!
2006-09-23 18:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by sweets 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha this one may be gross but oh well. He knowingly took my virginity and then bugged out and made me cry when he saw blood. I will always care for him because we had a long relationship ands were each others firsts but I don't like him anymore then a friend.
2006-09-23 18:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my girl Friend and lived to gather for 3 years we had our problems like ever body Else.My mom died on Aug. 5 and i went to Montana for her funeral and when was there one of my Friends came to check on my house and when he got here he found her taking ever thing out of my house. He called me and told me what was going on and so i try ed to call her several times and finely when her p.h was answered it was some guy telling me to stop calling her and he was going to kick my *** if i kept calling. when i got back home i walked in to my house and found it completely turned upside down and most of all my stuff was gone then i try ed to call her and finely when i got her p.h to ring and not go to voice mail it was about 10p.m and some guy was telling me to get over it and move on that she was with him and i could hear her in the back ground telling him to hang up that that she would talk to me later it was obvious they were in bed i was so heart broken and after my mom dying and then coming home with no one to talk to or a shoulder to cry on it was the worst time of my life
2006-09-24 03:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by markhix1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋