So this girl that I have been friends my whole life, she is one of my best friends, I've wanted to be more than friends for a really long time, so i tried to ask her to homecoming, but she said she couldn't but didn't give me an explaination, this was yesterday, so now that she said that, my other friend, who is a girl, kind of explained why she said no, she likes someone else and wants to go to homecoming with them, this tore me up inside, and she said that she said she just wanted to be friend, how do i convince her that we can be more? Please answer
2006-09-23 18:10:09 · 11 answers · asked by guy with just a problem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, you got issues...
2006-09-23 18:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ricardo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before homecoming like a few days before tell her to like meet you somewhere that you two need to really talk. And when you tell her how you feel explain to her first and be like "we have been friends for all our lives and we know everything about each other" and then kinda go off from there and try to tell her that what you told her you hope it wont ruin your friendship if she don't feel the same but the best way to figure out if she still has the same feelings for you is just to ask her. Cause you never know she might like you but don't exactly wanna tell you cause she's affraid you don't feel the same way. And if she doesn't happen to like you that way maybe over a period of time she will end up likeing you because she knows how you feel about her but if what your friend says is true that she really does like this guy and if she doesn't happen to like you the same way you like her be right by her side through it all and be friend not just a jelous guy. I hope you understood that all. Well i hope my advise will help you out some.
2006-09-24 01:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sharhia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be man enough to respect her decision. If she wants you to be just her friend, then be the best friend that she could ever have. Perhaps someday, she will finally realize how important you are to her in her life. Remember that love never asks something in return. Continue giving her love just like you are now. If you can't do this, then you are not really in love with her and maybe she's right that you remain as friends. Good luck, big guy!
2006-09-24 01:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Esthon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can't force someone to like you more than they already do. The only thing you can do, if you reallllly like her, is just continue being her best friend. Maybe she'll eventually see what a great person you are and want to get to know you at a deeper lever.. but, on the flip side, maybe she wont ever feel that way. Just be able to understand her decision.. and dont get mad about it.
2006-09-24 01:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so young. You can not force someone to be with you, when they do not want to be with you. If you keep pushing this issue may end up loosing her as a friend also. You do need to realize that someone may come along that she is interested in, and there is nothing you can do about it. A good friend is forever.
2006-09-24 01:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably doesnt think of you the way you want her too. she probably thinks of you more as a brother. im sorry but if she doesnt like you, theres nothing really you can do. if you bug her too much or keep on asking her why, you'll just push her away. you might want to talk to her tho. if i were her, i think i would wanna know how my best friend feels. just ask her what she thinks of you. dont be pushy tho. back off a little bit.
2006-09-24 01:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you the truth is that friends make a good couple and ti last for ever give it time don't see for a little bit so see she can see how much she will miss you don't use the phone or any thing let her know you were busy give it time good luck to you
2006-09-24 01:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just More Proof that Guys and Girls Can Never be "Just Friends"
2006-09-24 01:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO RESPECT HER DECISION TO BE FRIENDS.
SHE MAY NOT FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL FOR HER, SO BE
THERE FOR HER AS A FRIEND SHOULD BE. BUT YOU NEED
TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL WANT TO
BE WITH YOU INSTEAD OF TRYING TO CONVINCE SOMEONE THAT MAY NEVER FEEL AS YOU DO. YOU ARE
MISSING OUT ON FINDING THAT SOMEONE WHEN YOU
STAY WHERE YOU AT. LEAVE HER ALONG AND MOVE
ON AND FIND YOUR SOULMATE.
2006-09-24 01:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing with me.
It is breaking my heart.
2006-09-24 02:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋