my good friend ( whom I love n want 2 be with) I found out from him when I asked how his family is doing n why haven't I seen his father in a while, he said he's sick.I think it's serious. So I got a get well card n wrote a loving message in it n I bought real pretty flowers 4 his dad n family n I got them chocolate bars( donates went 2 breast cancer). He was very appericatative of what I had done, kept saying thanks n how thoughtful it was. I really DO care 4 his father n family n I love him so much n I want him 2 know but I know he's not ready 4 a relationship cause he's got a lot going on that he wants to deal with now n now his father is sick. i love just being around him, talking n working with him( we're baggers at a grocery store).I feel we're perfect 4 each other. I told him the other day when he told me the news of his father I said ya know I'll always be there 4 you, you can tell me anything. n he told me thank you n that he appericated that. how else can I show him my love?
2006-09-23 18:07:09 · 15 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him how you feel. That is your only option. Guys don't understand gestures done for love as being for love. We just don't. We never ask WHY in our minds. Men that say they do are just lying. TELL him how you feel.
2006-09-23 18:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There many different kinds of flowers. Some are bulbs you can pop in the ground in January and they are up and blooming in March...and done in April. Other flowers may take several years of growth before they can bloom. But the blooms last longer and they come back year, after year, after year.
You said it all very well. You are caring about him. He is too dad bound to get into a relationship. You have a wonderful, delicious case of like. It can't be love yet because you are mature enough to help and be there, but you don't know him apart from the Dad Is Sick him. Like him - but don't expect much return for awhile.
2006-09-23 18:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there when he needs you. Tell him that you really like being with him . Just be honest with him and if he feels the same way it will happen I do not suggest you tell him you love him yet but definetely tell him that you want to know where things would go with him. But I would wait til his father is better to tell him that. Until his father gets better just be there for him show him you care about him and his family. If he is in the hospital you could bring him lunch so he can stay near his father
2006-09-23 18:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop doing things for him that are meant to push your feelings forward. Be his friends, he doesnt need you scheming even with wit us fools on the net over how you should let him know you love him. And stop doing things just cause you want him, you do things cause thats what you want to do not so you can win brownie points. Gurl either be there cause he needs support and forget what you want for now or just get the hell away from the poor guy and let him have ppl that accually think about him first and not there selves be there for him
2006-09-23 18:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about how to show him your love, girl! Just be there for him all the way with no expectations and hidden motives. If you really care about him and his family, then be there for them and ask them what kind of help can you give them. Don't push yourself to them.
2006-09-23 18:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
constantly pass inclusive of your love. If its actual love. Then %. that. by way of fact your mum and dad will purely get mad over something for a on an identical time as yet they are constantly your mum and dad. actual love comes around as quickly as in a life time.
2016-10-01 07:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hug/kiss on cheek... touch his hand... tell him if he ever just needs someone to talk to or someone to get out of the house & away from things with your there for him.
2006-09-23 18:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by SunRise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check in with him everyday or every other day. If you keep in touch with him, he will know that you care.
2006-09-23 18:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i must say that was vary nice of you vary nice you are a caring woman he is going throw a lot all you can do is to be by his side when he needs it stand by your man thanks to you and good luck to the both of you
2006-09-23 18:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are so dense, he'll just think that you are a good friend, you're gonna have to tell him flat out that you want to go out with him.
2006-09-23 18:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by sweets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋