i just turned 21 and just transfered to a a new college. im having trouble meeting friends even if i go to bars and stuff. how do i become an extrovert?
2006-09-23 17:56:09 · 10 answers · asked by Scott L 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I know what you mean. I am 25 now & have never been able to make friends with kids in my classes. The few friends I have never been to the same school as me! Now, I just try to say Hi to a few people when I'm out & see what I get back. Most people are ***holes to strangers any more, so I just think I must live in a bad city? Ha ha ha... I am thinking of making a club for people wo just want to meet once a year & let thier hair down, so to speak, & just have fun with strangers. I know it can happen & I want to be the one who does it!
2006-09-23 19:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Xtal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not an extrovert, you can't change. Forget the bar scene. Form a study group. Join a club that you are interested in. For example, the Sierra Club, Young Democrats. Ask someone in your classes for coffee and to study together. I'm an introvert and went to bars trying to meet women. All I met were drunks. I would have been better off studying and doing well in school. If you're successful, everybody wants to be your friend.
2006-09-23 18:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Superstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Don't think you can be something your not so quit trying and except yourself the way you are, Bars really isn't a good place to meet people half of them are drunk anyways , How about joining a gym I meet people there all the time its a great atmosphere, works for me.
2006-09-23 18:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont you hate it....i swear i transfered to a big skool and it was so hard to meet good friends....definetly get out and meet people or anxiety will set in.....1st thing in classes become aware or people around you....be friendly...and join some clubs....or get on facebook....
2006-09-23 18:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by dsggirl_atl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey what are friends for ...... join a club go to church find a watering hole do the personal adds ... talk to someone like say Hi! how are u? good luck to ya
2006-09-23 18:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know someone right? Even if you don't find someone in one of your classes you relate too. Start hanging out with them, the more you two get to be buddies then you'll start hanging out with this person's friends and intern you will make friends. You just have to make yourself be outgoing.
2006-09-23 18:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by jtdm 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you should go out for a sport or something. That always help. Maybe you could hang around other people.
2006-09-23 18:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
join a frat
2006-09-23 17:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by kirkwoodmo5 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your local church/mosque/synagogue
2006-09-23 18:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by I-C-U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you a nass hole?
2006-09-23 18:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by doggiebike 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋