Well I have this man in my life, hes incredibly busy sometimes almost non existant. And thats a big art of why he fit the bill for me. I can't do the clingy, needy guy thing. He's amazing and I knew this from the start. I wanted to see him so bad after spending a little time together but we both are so busy. He is way busier than I. I feel like the distance makes those time together so much more intense. It makes me think and apreciate him more and more when we are apart. Do I tell him how I feel or just leave it alone. Part of me feels he may just feel the same.
2006-09-23 17:53:19 · 8 answers · asked by Cheyenne V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From my point of view - don't tell him how you feel. That will define and therefore limit your relationship. That expression is the first try at making boundaries, whether that is your intent or not.
Right now, you both are happy to see each other ~ and finding out if and how you like to spend time together. Enjoy that time. And hopefully, with time, it might resolve into something more!
I applaud your relationship and find hope for couples in this insanely crazy and busy world.
2006-09-23 18:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i almost always 100% of the time wait for the guy to say what he feels first
the reason behind this is that most people don't really know what they feel in a relationship, especially when its new, and if you jump the gun it creates some communication riffs typically
it sounds like you enjoy the intensity and the suspense so waiting for him to come out with it first might be the way to go
of course, it never hurts to drop a couple of subtle hints :)
2006-09-24 01:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Chelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have been dating for a while, go for it. It;s worth the risk of going to that next level in the relationship in my eyes.
2006-09-24 00:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by xCrazY4hImx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be totally honest with him, tell him how you feel. You may be surprised at the outcome!
Best of luck!
2006-09-24 00:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by ManWithAView 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in telling...but better if you'll make him FEEL that feeling next time you get together...i think it's sweeter that way ;-)
2006-09-24 00:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by mctorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the times is right when you feel is right
2006-09-24 10:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a time with him this is how you should
2006-09-24 00:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Cool !!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes yes...tell him.
2006-09-24 00:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Black&Orange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋