I lost someone very young and very dear to me to suicide seven months ago.
2006-09-23 17:53:01 · 6 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Mill - it's just as strong now because it is real. and it is love. That's what happens when you love someone. Love doesn't stop when someone is gone. But it gets easier, and it will turn a bit off of it's current axis, and you will be able to experience it differently. The pain will become more of a memory, and the love will be in front of the pain. It will take time, but trust me honey, it gets easier.
2006-09-23 17:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Stormy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pain is a funny thing but with time it does subside. I think that suicide makes it even harder because people always wonder what they could have done to stop it from happening. The old saying that time heals all wounds is true but sometimes it takes one person longer than another. I will remember you and pray that things get better for you.
2006-09-24 01:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by 51ain'tbad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for your loss. I too lost my adopted son by murder at 24. It has been a long time ago and it still hurts very badly. I think when you have plans and dreams and they are suddenly ripped away it makes a very deep wound.
2006-09-24 01:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by marilee w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear this. It will take much, much more time for this wound to heal; seven months just isn't long enough and you may never be completely 'over' it.
Be strong and my best to you.
2006-09-24 01:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lonnie P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will always stay with you and 7 months is nothing just think when you break up with someione after 2 years of dating it takes a couple of months too heal and thats just for a break up not death time heals but remember give it time
2006-09-24 00:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal - you are not just only one have pain. but you need go to counsels they help you.
2006-09-24 01:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Freesia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋