Hello everyone ok help me out. I have a NEW boyfriend that I have NOT been sexualy active with. I really like him and we are falling in love. He told me that in his past relationship (6months ago) they used a flavored comdom while she gave him oral sex. as a result he says that he broke out( allergic reaction). He also said that he went to the doctor and the doc said that everything was ok and not to worry it's normal. Ok so he let me see his penis and boy! was it a sight, I saw black,thick,mold type,clusters aroung the tip of his penis! Im thinking how could this be ok and just go away? Does anyone know what this could be on his penis? I really like this guy! could he be lying to me? why hasn't these clusters gone away in 6months! HELP!!!!!!
2006-09-23 17:50:33 · 22 answers · asked by miss meme 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Skin Conditions
holy crap! not good. not good. is this for real? I don't think I could handle that! That is not allergy stuff. No way. My husband got an allergy to dye in underwear, hives, no mold. uh-uh girl, no way!!!
2006-09-23 17:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i don't beleive at this point it is a allergic reaction but, Look he loves you and love him but, he probaly has some kind of Std and he should be honest with and tell yo but doesn't know how Now if you love him enough to move forward then keep this in mind that you most likly will get it to. Even if you use everything you can not to contract it Your risk of getting it is much higher. So my advice is if you love him enough to where you know that you want to spend the rest of your life with him and you are sure he feels the same way about you then--Then go for it. but, know ahead of time what it is he has and do to research on it. Also talk to a doctor about it as well because that could help. Because once you become sexally involed with him there is know goimg back so think things through and talk with him about it. If you are not sure that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you then you should move on even if it hurts some. Anyways good luck and don;t make any rash jugement.
2006-09-23 18:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Butz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like herpes or some other STD and that he lied to you.
I don't know which kind, but if it hasn't cleared up in 6 months then it is something serious.
To tell the truth I would say, "Before you stick that thing anywhere near me I want to know exactly what it is and talk with the doctor about it. If it is an infection then you could give it to me!"
I am not a doctor and I can't diagnose him, but any infection that lasts more than six months would scare the hell out of me.
Look at this picture of a STD fungal infection in the mouth and find out if it looks anything similar to what you see: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Oral_thrush_Aphthae_Candida_albicans._PHIL_1217_lores.jpg
I would also read this article: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease
Researching this subject is going to lead to too many porn sites so I suggest that you take this issue to his doctor.
2006-09-23 18:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warts, herpes or WORSE! Don't even go there ewww!!!!! Not to mention that he's LYING to you, he doesn't have a "rash" that lasts 6 months - he's got something serious and is trying to minimize it. He doesn't love you if he won't go to the Doc with you and get this issue on the table. I mean you BOTH go in and address it together! Then you know for sure...no pussy footing around on this issue when it comes to your health, future and which may affect any children you might have!
Use your intellect and stand firm. If he is that much of a wonderful guy - then he should have NO qualms about going for a complete VD checkup with you.
2006-09-23 17:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have gone to the doctor but did he get tested for STD? Going to the doctor and getting tested is different. The STD test detects things that the doctor can not sometimes detect. When he comes back ask to see his papers and ask him to get the doctor to right him a statement saying he's healthy. If he can not give you that than stay away from him and his penis. Remember always look before you touch or put it in your mouth.
2006-09-23 18:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look other then the other two people answers.If your boyfriend loves you that much.Ask him if you can go to the doctor with him before you have sex.You both can get things done.That way he wont think your still scared to have sex with him.See were AM getting at?I hope everything is going to be gust fine.Plus he might be telling the truth.You never know,everybody is different.Good luck and take care.
2006-09-23 18:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dear
You are in trouble dear. As you have told me that your boyfriend used to have oral sex with her previous girlfriend then this is pretty sure that he has got infection from his previous girlfriend mouth. And this clearfy that infection is still present on the penis of your bf and still hvnt healed properly.
So ask ur boyfriend to tell the truth and take him to docter. Get his blood tested and do it immediately dear coz all signs which you written says that yes he is infected from his previous girlfriend saliva while doing kissing and oral sex.
And please don't try to kiss him or do any thing silly coz these infections can easily transfer itself with saliva. Get him tested for HIV also.
hope every thing is fine with him.
take care!!!!
2006-09-23 18:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Victor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I must say that's a new one. I'd contact YOUR Dr. and ask him or her the same exact thing you asked here. I wouldn't take the boyfriends word for it AT ALL.
6 Months seems like much too long to have an allergic reaction.
Good Luck
2006-09-23 17:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Miss C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go anywhere near it! if it truly was an allergic reaction it would have disappeared by now! if you really want to be with him make him go to the doctor and you go with him. go into the examine room and everything. ill bet money on it that it isnt an allergic reaction and is in fact an STD or something. be careful!
2006-09-23 18:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could Doctor be telling him"it's OK".
May be he never was the Doctor, out of embarrassment!
Just make sure.
Could be something simple, like epitheliomas(skin tags) or more involved, like condyloma accuminata(viral STD).
Read up on the net.
2006-09-23 18:04:20 · answer #10 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess he has warts caused by the HPV virus.
You can catch that. It will cause growths on your cervix, which will have to be surgically removed. Those growths can make it difficult for you to become pregnant, and they are also a leading cause of cervical cancer among women. It might be "ok" for him. But it's not OK for you.
Ask your doctor about the new cervical cancer vaccine.
2006-09-23 17:59:48 · answer #11 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋