What do you think about girl having sex befor she got married?really!!?

Question

i think its wrong

Answer 1

it's fine.

Answer 2

Yeah, I think it's wrong too, if you are testing out guys like test driving cars!!! Good grief.
I really believe a marriage has a better chance of surviving if both partners have intimate experiences with only each other. Think about all the relationship crap you avoid by avoiding sex!! If your goal is to one day be happily married until you die, you should pick your mate accordingly. That means picking one based on their merit, character, humor, honorability, personality, quirks, habits, etc. Not how good they are in bed.
Unfortunately, that becomes more important most of the time and acts like a glue for the relationship, and usually it's a bad one. Both women and men will often stick with a partner with whom their are incompatible if there's good sex, until that isn't enough and then break up. And that's one more relationship that makes them less likely to have a successful one in the future.
It's best to use that sex as a glue AFTER you have chosen your life partner.
However, I don't think you need to wait until after you are married. I think a ring and a CLOSE date for the marriage is good enough. It will make the honey moon funner if you have already experimented with each other a bit.

Answer 3

With the majority of women waiting to get married because they want to have a career, it is not likely that someone is not going to have sex before marriage now days. It's not like in the old days when women were considered "Old Maids" of they weren't married by the time they were 21. I didn't get married until I was 31, and I had a house, and nice car to show for what I had worked for. And I also assume that you think that it is ok for guys to whore around before getting married. If you think sex is bad before marriage it needs to be for both sexes, not just one!

Answer 4

I don't think it's any different than a man having sex before he is married. Although, I'm not even sure marriage is such an amazing institution anyways. Sex is not as meaninful and special as people make it out to be unless they want it to be. Sometimes sex is just sex and nothing else.

Answer 5

I think you would be making a mistake,boy or girl,when you get married it would make a difference,if you have had sex,the husband or wife will always in the back of the mind,hurt they was not the only one,besides there is always a chance of a disease,its best to wait

Answer 6

Hello??? What year is this? If you are in a serious relationship and actually love the person,then by all means,love that person. Dont forget that birth control and std's still need to be taken care of. You also have to think about what you want and maybe religion comes into play? Oh! and maybe your age!!!

Answer 7

I think its up to the individual to make their own choices. If your religion, or morals tell you that you shouldn't then maybe it is wrong. For me personally I think that it is worth the wait. Share it with the one you'll love forever ( hence the marriage) and not the guys that come before Mr.Right.

Answer 8

It's your personal opinion. In this day and age, I find it to be completely normal and I don't know many people who disagree. I had sex before marriage. I'm pretty sure I'm not going to Hell.

Answer 9

as for being pregnant young i beliveve it wrong wrong and i wish i could of had a good father and that

but serously not everything ends in pregnancy and sex can really confused a teen

Answer 10

What do you think about boys having sex before marriage? What do you think about double standards?

Answer 11

i (personally) wouldnt have sex before i'm married. but i dont care if other people do.