Help with you-know-what?

Question

I'm eleven and my crush likes to talk about s*x... so when he kisses me i don't want to be pressured... if he wants me to make out with him-----and this is the good age these days-----should i go with it or break out of it. No need to be mature when answering.

He wants to make out not have sex.

Answer 1

Ok, that may be a normal age to be curious about more adult like things, but it is way too young to be going through all that. at 11, making out should be far from your priority list. He's not looking for a relationship at that age. Not too be mean, but how many 11 years olds do you see in stable relationships?

And in terms of crushes, I was that age at one time too. And I'm not so old where I forget what it was like. I mean holding hands or an innocent kiss on the cheek is one thing...but making out. Yikes. There is no need to grow up so quickly. Enjoy all the things you can only enjoy at that age. Because when you get older, you won't be able to them anymore.

Never, ever, ever let anyone pressure you into doing something that goes against your better judgement and what you feel comfortable with. Anyone who would insist after you've made yourself clear doesn't have your best interest in heart. And when you are 11, stay away from the 'hotter' older guys that want to date you. No 15 year old will ever date an 11 year old because he really likes her. Rather he would date an 11 year old because he thinks he can pressure her into sex and whatever else.

Good luck.

Answer 2

And the story unfolds...

Now... how old is your crush? Because this sounds a little shady to me. If he's 11, 12 years old. Then HE'S too young too. This just sounds like another case of...

Shut up and lie on yer back woman...

Don't be pressured into doing anything you don't want. If you don't want sex, then tell him to kiss off. Nicely of course.

Answer 3

I have two words for you "Too Young"

I can't believe that 11yr old children are contemplating having sex. Shouldn't you be still playing with Barbie dolls or something.

I think you should wait until you are mentally and physically ready for a step like this. Enjoy your youth don't rush to be an adult.

Answer 4

First of all, if you can't say it, you shouldn't do it. If you are only 11, you REALLY shouldn't do it, no matter how "grown up" you feel.

You need to focus on yourself before focusing on sex and other things.

My God, what is this world comming to, honestly. 11 YEARS OLD!!!

I guess I'm the old maid here, oh well

Answer 5

Ok ok ok.

1) you can say "Sex" on this website, kid.

2) You're kissing at 11? Wow.

3) you're 11 and your boyfriend is talking about sex? break it off, kid.

4) "this is the good age these days"? No The good age is 17. Or at least, you know. PUBERTY.

5) YOU'RE ****ING 11 YEARS OLD, YOU STUPID KID! Break it off with this kid, you're all way too goddamn young. God i hate kids these days.

Answer 6

first of all...if you still say "you-know-what" maybe you shouldn't be asking a question here. Second...you are only 11. don't feel pressured about this. move at your own speed. If the guy doesn't except it, he is only after one thing, and isn't worth your time.

Answer 7

Gross sex is for mature adults u r still a baby

Answer 8

if he makes you feel unconfortable break up with him and if he doesn't stop tell a responsible adult you trust if a guy is talking about having sex with you he is not worth it i mean u are only 11 right?

Answer 9

your 11 u shouldnt be dating anyone or talking about sex or by the time your 15 your gonna be a little slapper

Answer 10

I think your to young to have sex but you can make out.And you don't want to go further you need to tell your crush.