I have this friend, and the more and more we hang out, the stronger the feelings grow for this person. At first it was just physical attraction, now it has become much more then this. From what I know, this person does not have that kind of feelings for me, but I am not 100% certain. One of the reasons I am afraid of telling is that this person might stop talking with me if I reveal this to them. I'd rather have this person as a friend then not have them in my life at all. BUT, I think about this person everyday, I really care about this person. Is it worth the risk? Is there an easy way of doing this? Please, I am desperae for help. I just don't know what to do. Can someone help me?
2006-09-23 17:27:33 · 4 answers · asked by acer9475 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Speaking from personal experience here................ I would just be honest with your friend, let him/her know how you feel, and also be open to the objections you may get in return. Once you cross that fine line with your friend (whether it's mutual or not) there really is no going back, things will NOT be the same as they are now. I lost my very best friend because we chose to cross that line. Things slowly dwendled down from there and before we knew it we never saw each other again. Never spoke another word. It was over a period of time, but still............
Don't cross that line, just talk to your friend and let them know how you feel and hopefully you can just keep those feelings as a treasure you'll hold on to for a very long time.
2006-09-23 17:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Help Me Help You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in similar situation right now. Every time I see him I think o.k. this is when I am going to tell him how I feel. Just as I think I will confess my feelings there is something that stops me. I don't think it is so much the rejection if he doesn't feel the same way but more if we were to bring it to another level...what happens if it doesn't work out? Then where do you go from here? Wouldn't it be awkward to go back as friends? You know your friendship would never really be the same. Is that worth risking losing him all together. I often think that if I leave it as it is...I at least have a person that I know will always be there. We seem to connect more often as friends even though once in a while he will date. He just starting seeing someone. I don't know how the relationship will go? but I do know that he still makes time for me and we continue to be together as friends even though he is dating this girl. I guess it all depends where you would like to take the relationship. Don't get me wrong...I would love to tell my friend that I like him more than a friend..but is it worth taking the chance of losing him if it doesn't work out? For now, I guess I would wait it out longer to see if he will make the first move!
2006-09-24 04:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by LES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t waste another second and tell this person how you feel.
Throughout life you will meet one person who is like no other. You could talk to this person for hours and never get bored, you could tell this person things and they will never judge you. This person is your soulmate... your best friend... never let them go...
A guy and a girl can be friends. But sooner or later one will fall for the other. Maybe too early, maybe too late, but maybe, just maybe forever
Good Luck!
2006-09-24 00:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOST OF THE TIME IF A GUT LIKES U HELL USUALLY MAKE THE FIRST MOVE DON'T MESS UP YOUR FRIENDSHIP.SOMETIMES WHEN WE HANG AROUND A PERSON EVERYDAY ALL DAY OF COURSE IF YOUR SINGLE YOUR EMOTIONS ARE GOING TO RUN WERE THEY PROBABLY SHOULDN'T
2006-09-24 00:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋