Does it make you feel good? If he had kids - how do you deal with the fact that he lied to his wife and his children? What is attractive about him now??
2006-09-23 17:14:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey before we go any further - I am the ex wife whose husband left for another, single woman. Just trying to understand. I don't get it. She is a reasonably intelligent womand and our marriage was actually okay. I am just trying to understand how these men get to young single woman.
2006-09-23 17:31:20 · update #1
Nothing is attractive about him. Shame on any person that would even be in a relationship with a married man, especially if there's children involved. If a married man ever left their marriage for me, I would feel like total crap. I would also deserve whatever emotional scars that this person is going to inflict on me. If he was willing to leave his wife and children for you, why then wouldn't he be willing to do the exact same to you when he's bored. He just proved he's selfish and only cares about his happiness. Why would anyone want to be with a person like that?
2006-09-23 17:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't attractive at all. The fact that he dump his wife and kid from someone else makes him a liar, no sense of responsibility and a cheater. That man is not sincere and surely he would do the same thing with his new gf or wife.
2006-09-23 17:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Arianne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st off a woman would be a f'n idiot to feel good that she destroyed another person's family! Not to mention if he left his WIFE for YOU (other woman) he is going to end up leaving the new woman for another one day. Plus where is the trust factor?! How could you believe anything he says because he lied to his wife to cheat why wouldnt he do the same?
2006-09-23 17:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by Evil Red 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It should make you feel like an utter ***. This is a man that is leaving a commited relationship, made a vow to that woman. He is now yours, till he tires of you and moves on to the next bimbo. Who needs the drama, betrayal and idiocy?
2006-09-23 17:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What goes around....trust me....it may take 10 years, but it will come around. Not only to him, if you did nothing, a single woman, to stop this, it's on you too. I don't think you just stand there all innocent and this man just leaves his family for you.
2006-09-23 17:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sso you're saying you were just attracted to him because he is married? That says alot about how you value yourself for why you would want to be with someone who will cheat on his wife and kids.
All i can say is- One good turn deserves another. Watch out someone will do it to you.
2006-09-23 17:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a married man who lies to his wife and eventually leaves her for another woman is a slime and not the least bit attractive
2006-09-23 17:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How could you ever trust him. He would probably do the same to you. Maybe after 20 years of therapy he'd be OK!
2006-09-23 17:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetie Poo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone take a married person who has left their spouse. If they leave one person you can be sure they will not think twice about leaving you.
2006-09-23 17:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Val 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt go out with someone like that because he could do the same thing to his next victim....
2006-09-23 17:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋