Every night i cry and i think about cutting myself! I am afraid about wat is going to happen!! How do i stop myself?? I dont know wat to do??
2006-09-23 16:59:04 · 35 answers · asked by Jaime D 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You need help, talk to your parents, just do so, they wont like yell at you or hit you, but they will be conserd and you like a daughter to them, and they wont let you let just randomly, talk to your parents, just do it, For teh sake of your life. if you cant talk to your parents for some reason, go to teh phycholoist person. or to your Pastor (since its going for "Religion and Spritiuality""
2006-09-23 17:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh poor girl.
What is making you so sad? Everythings will be over once time passed by. There is nothing important in the world. You see outside world closing your ears. You watch them doing.... you analyse them doing..... and you will start to know that whatever they doing have no meaning. There is no end. Try to be optimistic. Things turn out to be so bad in order to become good for the future.
For example. You have a boyfriend you love him so much. But he doesn't and break up with you. At first you feel so sad. But after you find another man who loves u so much, you start to realise I am so lucky!
Remember... human forget to realise how things are smooth when everything is OK. But nobody forget to relise how bad their life is when everything is not OK. If you can see there are a lot of good things happening to you.
If you die, imagine how your parents and your beloved friends and relatives will feel. Your parents will say " Oh! We raised you until this age and you comitted suside. What a waste of our love and efforts."
Every dying experience except natural death are so painful that it's beyond imagination. I believe you don't want to experience that. Moreover, it's not a solution and get that idea out of your mind and work on the actual solution.
Good luck!
I don't want to hear anyone sucide after reading my letter.
2006-09-23 17:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by AAA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have known a lot of cutters over the years, and I have been able to help them somewhat with insights and other stuff. If you want a friend who *may* be able to offer some hope and strength, email me.
I have also felt suicidal a lot in my life but don't anymore, ever. So I know a thing or two about getting through that.
2006-09-23 17:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Gestalt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to an adult or close friend who will listen. You need to get professional help. Depression is very common and can be treated. Do not hurt yourself, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I think most people feel hopeless at times in their lives. Pray. and I just prayed for you.
Read: Psalm 69
If you don't have a bible you should be able to look up verse on computer.
2006-09-23 17:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by bella 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're being honest with this post, you need to go to a psychologist as soon as possible. The thoughts of suicide will increase and increase until you start actually doing it. It is EXTREMELY dangerous to leave this untreated. You sound like a sweet girl, so you shouldn't throw away this life without accomplishing and viewing all its beauty.
2006-09-23 17:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Alucard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been gifted with a precious human life, you are your own unique light in this world. Take your attention away from whatever depresses you and find solace in beauty. Try meditating, clear your mind of thought, relax. Take a walk in a beautiful place and you will see what life is, then you will never want to give it up. Every smell you take in, every vibrant shade of color, every sound, however soft, take nothing for granted. When you immerse yourself in this world you will realize how lucky you truely are, and you will become grounded.
2006-09-23 17:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Shinkirou Hasukage 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jaime D,
Write to anyone here that makes sense to you. You MUST stop. These things will just accumulate. Your head isn't processing things logically, and constructively. Get out of it. Whatever you are cutting yourself with, give it to someone and tell them what you are doing with it. Don't give it to a stranger, give it to a Pastor.
There ARE people wanting to help you, you just have to be brave, they don't know where you are, but they CAN help you.
My e-mail isn't working on yahoo!Answers for some reason, so I wish I could, but I can't get feedback.
You can change this TONIGHT! You have to, okay?
2006-09-23 17:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Jamie D, I hope you see the common thread in the answers to your post. We care about you and we want you to get help. Please, please talk about your feelings to a professional. If you feel you can't talk to your parents then go to your school counselor, your pastor, your doctor or call your local crisis hot line and talk to them. There are people out there who care about you and are there to help you. Jamie, you need to reach out to them. Be honest with them and tell them how you feel. Most young people go through periods of doubt about themselves. I am glad that you are asking for help here, as it shows that you want help but probably just don't know where to find it. Suicide is NOT the answer to your problems. Problems are temporary and can be helped. So, talk to a responsable adult about your feelings. I'll be praying for you Jamie D. Every day. I promise you that, and I know others here will be praying for you as well.
2006-09-23 18:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by price7204 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are you crying? And why do you wont to cut yourself up,
You need to talk to someone about this problem,because if you cut the
wrong blood vain in your body you will bleed to death.And there is no
turning back when you cut the wrong thing on your body.Why do you wont to hurt yourself? Things in life get better,whatever you are going through in life this will PASS
2006-09-23 17:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow.....=/
Know what?
I believe that at one point in time or another all of us have fealt that way for sure. Life is soooooo difficult at times.
If you have been trying and trying to do things the same way over and over again, you are only getting the same results. negative.
If you are serious about needing help, and it sounds like you are sweetheart... there is help for you.
Right here and right now.
those that love death hate God.
but .......it is God who loves us soo much.
If you really are at your last wits end..... try something different.
I challenge you!!
Jesus alone can help you with this need to end your precious life.
It is satan alone that influences a person to do such things.
It is God alone that uses PEOPLE TO SPEAK TO YOU! =]
*simply cry out to God as you would to your best friend or yourself at night....AND ASK FOR HIS 4GIVENESS AND NEED FOR HIM TO BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE!
*God bless you.
Hell is real. So is heaven. ETERNITY IS 4EVER YOU KNOW. -time is short, so the rest is in your hands now, ok.
-LIVE4TRUTH =]
2006-09-23 17:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by LIVE4TRUTH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EMO! I used to be emo and want attention,but I know that thats just flat out stupid .Why die?If you do kill yourself,there's no turning back.Just remember that.
Did you say you were twelve ,I read some of your other questions.
Don't listen to what other people tell you they are not true friends if there gonna push you into sex.If you do have sex please make sure there is a condom involved or get on birth control thats what im using.
2006-09-23 17:03:35 · answer #11 · answered by Z ten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋