Which do you think is right? Do you go out and look, or do you just wait and pray it find you?
2006-09-23 16:52:12 · 19 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ninety nine percent of us are not privy to that kind of luck darling. Love is like life. If you don't go out and get it, then you will have to settle for whatever junk that falls your way.
2006-09-23 17:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's a mixture of both. I mean I think the real thing story is that you have to get out an open your heart and be looking and be alert for love. But your not suppose to look at everyone because the right guy will come to you when your heart is open up to the fact of love.
2006-09-23 23:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I have always believed that if you want something, be it a person, place or a thing, you go out and get it!
Seriously! How often does Prince Charming come knocking on your door?
But the best way to find love is to go out and engage yourself in life. Do the things you like to do, but expand on them. Join a group that has the same interests as you do and you are sure to find someone who will share your outlook and interests in life.
2006-09-23 23:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you... what do you think is best. I think I wait for love to find me. I do not really go out looking for it. I really am not taking an active roll in trying to find someone, so in that manner I am waiting. Maybe one day I will start really looking but for now I will take a step back and let it find me.
2006-09-23 23:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will come to you does not mean literally that you will be in your house and one day the bell will ring and a handsome man will say "HI I'm your love I've come to you."
You have to put yourself out there in the right situations. Trust that you will find him/her and yes in that case Yes, the right person will come along because you took the initiative and trusted..
2006-09-23 23:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell you that love will find you ill tell you about mine lol when i was 18 i worked in this little burger joint and across the street was a gas station and this guy worked there well i liked him alot and he like me he was in his 20's we saw each other out he kissed me a few times but thats as far as it went well i got married and divorced well im out one night with a friend at a payphone and this guy pulls up and starts yelling my name well turnes out it was the love of my life i thoguht about him all the time and he just happen ta find me that night we have been together ever sence and we have a daughter so love found me and i wasnt lookin
2006-09-24 00:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking for love in all the wrong places. Those are words from an old song.
Anyway, if you are looking for love, it won't happen. It will just come...it will come so very unexpected. But when it happens , you will know. Sometimes you confuse love with infatuation...so be careful........
Love can hurt too. So be careful....
good luck.
2006-09-23 23:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one. i believe that everything will happen as it's supposed too... i didn't go and look for it, it just came to me through friends... there's always the what if though... the question of what if he didn't say anything, and then i went out with some friends and met a complete stranger... i mean it just happens... and i think it can go either way.... but it'll happen just the way is supposed too.
2006-09-23 23:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sit here, and ask us this. The love of your life will come and knock on your door.
Go out into the world, man! Find it!
2006-09-23 23:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd say you have to be open to it showing up on its own, but don't sit around and take whatever comes to you. Know what you want, then go out there, find it, and choose it for yourself! :)
2006-09-23 23:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋