I have an annoying little brother who is 9 yrs old and he is always checking out my girlfriend. It's really embarrassing. Besides squishing him, how can I get him to stop?
2006-09-23 16:46:41 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You won't stop him from being curious or observant. In fact, the more you try, the more he'll make sure you notice. He's probably doing it for the attention, too.
Tell him you're going to "clue him in" as his big brother. ;) Let him know that he's got to keep his ogling discreet, or he'll chase the girls away. Let him know that girls like to be noticed, but not stared at as if they're bugs. Hopefully he'll see you as the role model, and get the hint.
2006-09-23 16:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by roberticvs 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While he's young and people are saying that "boys will be boys," thats no excuse for that type of behavior. It's rude, boorish, and demeaning. The next time he does it, have your girlfriend confront him. Call a parent in, and in front of that parent, have your girlfriend ask him to stop. She should tell him that it makes her feel uncomfortable, and that it's no way for a gentleman to act. Then have a parent chime in with how inappropriate it is, then mete out some sort of discipline (taking away a toy or privilege). That will stop it. By allowing it to go on, that bad behavior is being reinforced. He's learning to objectify women and the older he gets, the more difficult it will be to get him to quit.
2006-09-23 17:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tony G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just let him look? He's just showing normal natural signs of being a boy right? At least he's not looking at your booty or your 'pals' booty!
You looked at girls booties & will until the day you die...let him look!
Making him feel like he's doing something wrong that's actually normal or natural could confuse him & cloud his ways of handling women. You don't want him to feel guilty or wrong for having feelings for girls do ya?
At least he's not crossing the line & touching her or making her feel uncomfortable. If it goes that far...you need to get a parent to handle that situation.
2006-09-24 20:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by paigenstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who squished you when you were 9??
Hey look, he's just a kid. Talk to him brother to brother, and say you know he wants to look at your pretty girlfriend, but he's got to learn to be more discreet about it. Explain that it's embarrasing to her and makes her feel uncomfortable. He's old enough to start learning how to admire without gawking.
2006-09-23 16:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
what kind of punk Azzed stuff is this ??? Man that is your little brother , you tell him him plain and simple .you say hey little brother I know you like looking at my girls A s s , and as your big brother its my job to teach you just how to look at a girls booty without her seeing you , you tell him make sure it aint obvious and to keep cool abotu it, but by all means its your duty to let him catch a peek if he is cool about it......but you gotta tell him why he cant be an obvious perv about it...........come on man dont get mad , hes your brother wheres the love ???
2006-09-24 20:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be too mean to him. He cannot help he likes her. If he is staring to the point that he is being rude then take him aside and nicely let him know a classy person does not stare.
2006-09-23 16:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys will be boys they are always going to try to check out females. However feel free to smack him up side his head each time he does it. My older brother used to do that and that's what I did. One time he got brave enough to smack one of my friends on her @$s when I wasn't around. She slapped him and told me I ended up giving him a black eye. Needless to say he haves never tried to check out any of my friends again.
2006-09-23 16:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boys will be boys. Just ignore it and let him be what he is your little brother. One day you both will laugh about it and it will be a fond memory. Don't sweat the small stuff.
2006-09-24 00:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your annoying little bother is discovering his own sexuality thats OK he likes the booty maybe he needs to get one of his own... consider it a compliment in your good taste in booty
2006-09-23 17:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should keep your girlfriends booty away from him. It's really hard to control what a person looks at when it's probably swishing around right in front of him.
2006-09-23 16:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋