One time i was talking to my friend, arna, and this guy came up and started talking to us, i didnt know what to do...I started to break out and sweat alot. then i I FAINTED. it was horrific! At that i moment i just wanted to go to the library and read my favorite book to just soothe my soul. Please help me learn to talk to boys! ahhhh ! bye byeeee
2006-09-23 16:45:02 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't talk to them yet, you're not ready for it.
2006-09-23 16:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just human beings. Do you have a dad or a brother? Your dad was a boy once and you can talk to him, right? Maybe you were just feeling ill or coming down with something. Don't let it scare you. You will be fine the next time.
2006-09-23 23:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fainted? wow.
well, i only get nervous when i'm trying things that i'm inexperienced at. i'd say that if you keep talking to boys it'll get easier and easier. try talking to guys, maybe guys that you don't like a whole whole lot at first, to gain experience. also if you start to get nervous/sweaty/dizzy, just fake like you've gotta make a phone call and excuse yourself.
eventually, though, when you move from talking onto other things, it's likely that some guys will think it's kind of cute and charming if you get all nervous and faint around them. just make sure that they're strong enough to cach you!!!
2006-09-23 23:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be cool pretrend in your mind hes a girl! If you like him talk to him and become friends! just take a deep breathe and go withthe flow! Goodluck Sarah!!!
2006-09-23 23:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jaimie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it may be nerve racking to talk to to a cute boy or your crush, but if they come up and talk to u the number one thing u MUST do is be yourself!! dont try to act all COOL and all that stuff, just calm down and be yourself start a conversation. its ok.
2006-09-23 23:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by crazychik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl has this experience, just say hi and see what he wants to say, its not always supposed to be a great conversation, but just trying to have one will help you get over your fears!!! because it helped me out too!!!
2006-09-23 23:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by teekapeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.............You need help. Seriously, girl, you will never get through life if you FAINT around boys.
2006-09-23 23:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counselling,honey!
2006-09-23 23:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you joking?
try to relax.....learn to face fear and not run away from it. it is hard, but you can do it.
2006-09-23 23:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋