She has not told her mother or any family member. Just her boyfriend and me. How can I help her?? What should I tell her?
2006-09-23 16:35:09 · 14 answers · asked by unknown 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
She asked her mom a few questions just to see her reaction and her mom said she would hurt her!
2006-09-23 16:41:32 · update #1
you can't help her. you can't do anything. just be there for her.
2006-09-23 17:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by fluffyorangekat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. i have been in the same situation so i can give u this true advice - u must get her to talk with her parents offer to be there as well. if she wants to keep baby then theyr gonna find out anyway. just explain to her that no sensible people will go mad at a pregnant lady no matter of age. i summise that her parents care fo her so they will try and advise her for the best but just explain that they will calm down and unless she talks to her folks she wont get the help that she needs. just be there as a friend and help her to do the best
2006-09-23 17:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by haha_islaughing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her mom most likely told her it would hurt her,because she thought her daughter was thinking about having sex.I'm pretty sure that it would tear her mom in pieces if she don't tell her soon.I would tell her friend to go to planned parenthood first to see if she is.But,as soon as she finds out she needs to let her mom know!There is nothing worse then not having your child trust you with something so important!She needs her moms help and the proper care!Either way good luck and God Bless!
2006-09-23 16:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, she should take a pregnancy test if she hasn't already. If she is pregnant, then she should talk to her parents. Although no parent would want their high school daughter to be pregnant, most parents just want the best for their children. If she wants, you could be with her for moral support when she talks to her parents, but she does need to talk to her parents. You can't hide a pregnancy. Most of all, you should just be a friend, and be there for her when she needs you.
2006-09-23 16:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie73 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she needs to tell her parents that she might be pregnant. Second get her mother to take her to an OB GYN to confirm whether or not she is pregnant. She needs your support as well. Please tell her not to consider abortion. She can put the baby up for adoption if she feels like she is not ready to be a mother. Please tell her to give a woman who can't have a child the chance to have a baby by putting the baby up for adoption.
2006-09-23 16:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol when i first hinted around to my mom she said she'd kill me and that quickly changed my mind...but she needs to tell her mom or a counceller or som eone...go to the store and buy her a home pg test to find out for sure or make her bf do it someones parents need to be told...goodluck and stick through it no matter what cause in high school alot of people turn the back on the people who are pg like everyones hav ing sex but your the outcast cause you got knocked up just help her through it itll be rough for her goodluck!
2006-09-23 16:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,this will not go away,yes the parents are going to be upset,but there is no way she will pull this off,she must tell her parents now,so she can get proper care,and also proper advise
2006-09-23 17:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by ken m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation almost but i was 17.tell her to talk to her parents. i thought my parents would kill me when i told them but it turned out they were very supportive. It was so hard to do too but its the best thing she can do since she isnt 18.
2006-09-23 17:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by chingy_88_42069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful it's not you. Learn a giant lesson from this, and don't get involved with sex until you are married. Tell your mom.
2006-09-24 00:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her not to get an abortion, tell her to tell her parents, (go with her for moral support if you need to), tell her that she can have this baby and still have a life, whether her parents help her with the baby or she gives it up for adoption.
2006-09-23 16:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by toomanycommercials 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to Planned Parenthood for counseling and testing, be a friend.
2006-09-23 16:44:50 · answer #11 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋