there is this guy that i like and he flirts and talks to me alot. everytime i look at him he is looking at me and he either looks away or smiles and tries to make me laugh. i think he might like me but i don't know for sure and if i should ask him out. should i wait for him to ask me?
2006-09-23 16:30:51 · 24 answers · asked by blondie_babe2324 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl. Go ahead and ask him out. It's quite obvious that he likes you. Ask him out to somewhere light like to the park or to lunch or somewhere where it will give you the chance to find out how much you guys could connect and if all goes well he will start to make the heavier moves on you.
Though you ask him out first you should allow him to do the hunting.
Don't worry too much about if he rejects you at least you'd know you made an effort to deal with your attraction to him.
Good luck and be brave.
2006-09-23 16:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sudden Urge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must calm down and think. If you don't want heartbreak, tell him this. "Listen, I need to tell you something. First I want to tell you I like you a lot and I have for a while now." Pause and let him take it in. Let him answer or you could go on. "I wanted to know if you like me too." If yes then say, "Maybe we should go out sometime."
I wish ya all the luck in the world and don't freak. If you guys get together, you'll look back and fell silly for being nervous so don't be.
Signed, sugarpiggy
P.S: You'll get him :D
2006-09-23 23:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by sugarpiggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woaa lol calm downnn take it smoothhhhh ready?.. ok
This is how it BrEaKs DoWn In ThE gHetTo
lol jk
Ok!! moving on! you cant just sit there and wait.. waiting sucks and it gets you nowhere do exactly this.. walk up to him and whether you a shy are not you HAVE to find out if he likes you or not to get this off your chest its REALLY important ok? ask a friend do somthing cause i kno how u feel you can let him know you like him ya kno? put ur cards out on the table and ask him do you like me yes or no, no if ands or buts maybes and ehh's are out of the Question straight up Yes Or No and if yes will you go out with me Yes or no dont be all ohh.. well umm.. do you.. uh.. like.. me?.. be outgoing bout it k? remember that it will get u through the long run
2006-09-23 23:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by 0311GettinSum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him who he likes.
or try and make him jealous and look fer a reaction.
give em a compliment and watch him smile.
its a dead give away if he likes u or not
most of the time u will feel it
u will feel this strong connection where you find thinkin about him alot and u feel like ur floatin its only because his thinkin about u too.
i kno this becuz it happen to me and i kno longer feel the floaty feelin, i feel a sad and bitter feelin witch means he prolly doesnt like me anymore but he will never know i still do.
Is it in his eyes?
- Oh no, you'll be deceived
Is it in his eyes?
- Oh no, you'll make believe
Is it in his face?
- No no that's just his charm.
In his warm embrace?
- No, that's just his arm.
Hug him and squeeze him tight
And find out what you wanna' know
If you wanna' know if he loves you so
It's in his kiss.
- That's where it is
2006-09-23 23:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was actually in that exact situation 2 weeks ago. I finally talked him about it on aim... (we don't live in the same town) i just casually asked "what if..." and we discussed it because he's my best friend's roomate... and then it just slowly happened... that was two weeks ago and now we talk every night and i'm going to see him in few weeks. Just let things happen, it'll all turn out like it's supposed too! good luck!
2006-09-23 23:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you can do is talk to him and ask him if u really good Friends with him it well be easy.don't be scared and if he says he doesn't then hes gonna be missing out in a great thing and u can find someone way better but talk to him don't be afraid and he don't bite lol but i say it never hurts to try
2006-09-23 23:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by *~Baby GiggleZ 15~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you feel its right you make your move .don't always wait on the guy to approach you you approach him let him know that you got it going on and if he is down with then let it be known.let him know that you like him but in a casual way.don't come on strong unless you fell that slippin away from you come back strong on the flipsyde and holla. or you can do like i do and be your self. put that in your pipe and smoke it lol.
2006-09-23 23:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by houston_grain_gripper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask him out! Be upfront ask do u like me! He might be afraid to make the first move!!!
2006-09-23 23:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jaimie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he shy? You may be right he may like you. You may need to make the frist move to show him that you won't "bite". He may be afrain of rejection and therefore timid about how to approach you.
2006-09-23 23:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by memorris900 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him and dont be nervous the worst thing he can say is no. Good Luck!
2006-09-23 23:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋