ok im in tenth grade and i dont want 2 sound conceited but once u get to know me im fun to be around so my personality is great but when i dont know u im shy and i also have low self esteem ppl call me pretty but idk im not fat im like 125 nd im 5 7' with green eyes so now whats wrong is it that im scaring guys away by being shy and having low self esteem? also idk how 2 flirt so can u please give me some advice on this whole situation
2006-09-23 16:26:46 · 17 answers · asked by jess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to school naked
2006-09-23 16:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their a plenty of things dress fashionable and go to a gym to look fitter and improve your physical apperance that way every bit helps i mean their is nothing wrong with improving yourself . Please dont become another young slapper . I know what you mean your just shy at first it could wear off as you get older you know but maybe not so personaly i think it would be good for you to do a confidence cource or get some books on self improvement i mean by doing all those thing yoiu will become attractive or more attractive i should say . Your just having normal teenage problems its more commen than you think .
2006-09-23 23:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing to do with guys is become their friends find out what their interests are that are somewhat interesting to you and discuss it with them like you would any of your other friends. Also don't act boy crazy trying to throw yourself at them, play hard to get. Guys like a chase. Even though its hard to talk to them dont be scared they put their pants on in the morning just like anyone else does. Think of yourself as pretty because you are. they will see your new self confidence and come around eventually.
2006-09-23 23:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by dzjoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a great talent when it comes to writing music and song lyrics...even putting them together is great. Everybody I have played around Love what I do but i am shy too. You gotta just get out there sometimes just be yourself and dont really pay attention to what people think about you. If they dont like you thats they're problem.
Good luck sweet.
2006-09-23 23:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i''m shy too and i pretty much had the same problem as you when i was in high school. i try to pretend that it doesnt bother me when i cant get a guys attention but sometimes it does. i just try to be myself and be confident about who i am. when you're able to do that, you'll see...you'll stand out more as a confident young woman. it also depends on what kind of attention you want...
just try to be yourself and feel good about it
i'm sure you're hott anyway so dont sweat it.
ps...it's all about eye contact. most men cant resist a woman's seductive eyes and their smile!
2006-09-23 23:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by girlwiththegoodies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off,u dont sound conceited. go talk to the guy u like about anything, if youre hot, the rest will take care of its self
2006-09-23 23:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by mr.ken_kennedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are very visual, physical. All you need to do is walk, sit and stand. They notice you.
Maybe they notice that youre shy and leave you be. If you want someone to take more notice...smile. :D say or wave hi. What the heck can it hurt?
2006-09-23 23:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were you i wouldnt act a different way just because i like a guy just act your self around him, all you have to do is smile at him or just say hi, and once u guys know eachother a little bit you can flirt.. flirting is just another way of acting cute for them i guess??
2006-09-23 23:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by teekapeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally Ignore them!
2006-09-23 23:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out first what kind of boys you want and then appeal to there interest but be real about it.
2006-09-23 23:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is show your t*ts to a couple guys & the word will get around that you are HOT!!!!
2006-09-23 23:29:31 · answer #11 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋