I have a crush on this girl and I think that she is really something special. The thing about me is that I am really shy but still outgoing, and I just have a hard time expressing myself when it comes to issues such as love. Also, I think that she may know that I do have some feelings for her. Somebody please help me. Thanks much.
2006-09-23 16:22:25 · 14 answers · asked by smcgraw2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing is going straight to her
2006-09-23 16:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by jack sparrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...ive had many girlfriends before and i have found it best (if possible) to do the following
become good friends with that girls best friend. after about a month (love can wait, right?) tell the best friend that you like the girl you like. it may take a while, but tell the bestfriend to slowly let her know...like say, "i know someone who has really big feelings for you" and later on " this guy really likes you but doesnt want me to tell you yet" then she will become curious and will start thinking (and soon just plain figure out) that its you. then, she will start interacting with you even more and start showing more feelings for you (its the human way). when you finnally go out, tell the best friend "THANks ALOT!youve helped alot!!" the best-friend is the key to knowing more about the girl you like and knowing if she likes you already.
IF YOU DONT KNOW THE BEST-FRIEND then just tell it to the girl slowly.it works.but try the first way FIRST!
2006-09-23 23:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a note and ask her out that way if your shy! Ask her if she wants to go out to a movie or something! If she says no its not the end of the world you'll find someone else and just be upfront and try!
2006-09-23 23:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jaimie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being honest and mature. By owning up to her that it is difficult to tell her this but you have to or you wont like yourself. That she can say any answer but you just want her to know that you like her a lot and think she is special and you would love to have her as a friend, or more.
2006-09-23 23:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll have to go with Mal in this. Don't just walk up to her and say "Hey, I like you. Deerrr..." I know a kid that tried that and all it did was scare them away. Tell her that she rocks hardcore in your own special way. Present... flowers... something that interests her... Always imply, never directly tell.
2006-09-23 23:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sweet and maybe give her a little present. Anything that shows that you are sweet and there for her, she might like. If you maybe just ask her to a movie or sit with her at lunch and ask her out. She might like your shyness but take a little anititive.
2006-09-23 23:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blah man i know how you feel most ppl do go into this shy state and all you just have to sit down and look in the mirror and be like.. you know what?.... F it.. and just do what you do look good and flaunt wat u got dont sit there and be like yeah.. i like you or have your friend tell her no.. thats weird.. walk up to her one day or somthing pass her a note smile at her let her know that you like her the offer is on the table if she wants it its there dont fall in love with an outside image, not everything that shines gives off that warm loving touch
GL
Signed
Ya Boiiiii
2006-09-23 23:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by 0311GettinSum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her out. If she says no you haven't lost or gained anything right?!
2006-09-23 23:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by mad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go to the movies and give her a flower =]
2006-09-23 23:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about honesty? works every time. if she's not interested then you don't need to waste your time, if she is then enjoy!
2006-09-23 23:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋