If we don't have sex what difference does it make? Don't they think we have a brain? Why would I want to have sex with two different guys when I could two guys and no sex?
2006-09-23 16:11:04 · 17 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 46 years old.
2006-09-23 16:14:26 · update #1
Why would I care if he had twenty women as long as we didn't have sex?
2006-09-23 16:15:37 · update #2
Oh I know what love is but I've been hurt and decided to spend the rest of my life trying to have a little fun; sex is not everything.
2006-09-23 16:33:23 · update #3
there is nothing wrong with what you think and say, I'm right behind you 100%
2006-09-23 16:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by bprice215 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it makes a difference because sex is part of any healthy loving relationship between a men and a women. sure, you can have 30 b-friends if you want, and they can be all without sex (if you can find guys that are ok with no sex, good luck) but how meaningful would those relationships be to you. i think in the end, most people just want to love and be loved. how much love can someone feel when their gfriend or bfriend is going out with 10 other people?
2006-09-23 23:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by tom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys get too jealous
and feel second place
they want this fantiscy that you found them
and you knew from then on he was the one
mostly cause these are the ideas put in there heads since they were children!
also
ideas like sugar and spice and everything nice!
we think women are supposed to be perfect
and thats whats wrong
women should shop around too like guys do!!!
stand your ground
tell guys right off the bat
"im dating
i have freinds
i havent found some one yet
i dont have sex
i dont have to tell you that but i dont want you thinking bad of me too
so if you cant handle that,
good luck my freind!"
2006-09-23 23:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by alamoblue2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because having a boyfriend or girlfriend is about more than sex, it's about having someone that wants to be with you more than other people. That's commitment. You can't make a commitment like that to more than one person. If you have two boyfriends, you really have none.
2006-09-23 23:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by stevejensen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no one is going to read your whole question, so be prepared to be called a whore and much more. but, I think that you mean no boyfriend and only friend which involves no intimacy. There is nothing wrong with that, and as long as these men know where they stand in your life, there should never be a problem.
2006-09-23 23:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead with the 2 bfs and have fun Ur only young once.
2006-09-23 23:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have more than one boyfriend, but you cannot be blessed with a couple of guys as husbands because that would be ludicrous and selfish.
2006-09-24 23:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by farack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you want your cake and eat it too..Grow up..It's obvious you are not old enough to know what love is or you just don't care ..Your not in love you just want to play the field..Can't have it both ways..Boyfriend or no boyfriend...
2006-09-23 23:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you want to do is "date". The term "boyfriend" refers to someone you want to go steady with (as in date ONLY him). If you just want to date around, tell these guys what your intention is. Guys do it all the time (date around), so doing so doesn't make you a "slut"... unless you sleep with all of them.
2006-09-23 23:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
men are selfish? sounds like you're the one who wants loads of boyfriends, most men don't wanna share dear...
2006-09-23 23:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by marquita 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋