i want to be with him i want nothing more than to feel him with me the mere thought of it i crave he isn't the best looker ( long brown hair, skinny as paris, long angular face, with dark features) he isn't kind to me i'm not sure if he even said one word of truth w/i the two years we knew each other except the last words he said to me " i don't like you anymore" i beleive he never did .he told me this as he broke up with me 3 months ago ovr the phone
i know i'm only 13 but i think i love him
why he dosen't deserve it i know that
2006-09-23 15:51:25 · 12 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4 those who don't understand my ? how do i get over him
2006-09-23 15:54:23 · update #1
i didn't like his looks as much as a girl should ever he noz how 2 make me laugh he was a shoulder to cry on he still looks fro me even though he has a girl he still tries to make me laugh its like he refuses to giv up
i cant describe how he acts but he does still care i think i didn't throw this in earlier when i should hav but i don't know if he is minipulating my feelings again
2006-09-23 16:04:14 · update #2
Welcome to the world of Hormones sweetie! You're 13. Your hormones are just starting to kick in. You found an attatchment to this guy and now it's gone. Your hormones are firing making you extra emotional over the loss of your comforts (the shoulder to cry on etc.).
When you get older this should even out. But us girls have different emotional reactions to guys, and hormones exacerbate them.
Us girls go through lots of hormonal changes in life--much more than men. That's why we can be so emotional at times. Knowing this though, gives you a way to combat it though. You need to find something to occupy you for a while. Eventually time will make all this seem so silly.
Another emotional time--even later in life is during pregnancy (you don't want to go there until you are much older sweetie!). When my aunt got pregnant she used to cry watching TV shows and movies--even during comedies! So, just realize that you are experiencing emotions extra strongly now due to hormones.
2006-09-23 16:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by lilpuffingirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont get over people you try to find a new boyfriend so you can move on and thats the only way to do it! And anyone can fall in love no matter how young you are just make sure you still concentrate on your studies!
2006-09-23 15:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sweetheart you'll be in and out of love a few times more before your turn 18,your too young too understand this now but i promise you one day you will; the most i can say to you now is get on with your life, life's too short to worry about someone who isn't worried about you
2006-09-23 16:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, ask yourself this question: Do I want to be with someone who tells me he doesn't like me anymore, and can't break up with me in person? Plus, it sounds like you were only interested in his looks. You can't resist because you're too young to know any better. You don't want to hear it, but there it is. Leave it alone.
2006-09-23 15:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your in love for 13
but hold on
youll find a nicer guy
dont let guys use you
your too good for that
mostly your in lust
dont worry their will be others
hang in there and dont put your self down
find some one else
2006-09-23 16:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by alamoblue2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13, you need to move on.
2006-09-23 15:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you serious? are you really 13? you need professional help please seek some help within your community. A counselor, a parent a teacher something. YOur too young for this.
2006-09-23 15:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you don't love him, trust me on that. you are 13 YEARS OLD, when you are older and you have dated other guys you will not even remember his name.
2006-09-23 15:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by shrimpylicious 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
2 words for you..... MOVE ON!!!! he flat out told you he doesn't like you and even you admitted he never really did, so why stress on him.
2006-09-23 15:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are much too young for all of this.
2006-09-23 15:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋