I for some reason lately have no desire to be touched or if when I am close I stop competely because I feel I dont want to finish.
It is not the boy, it is me and I am scared because I am pushing him away and he thinks its him but really its me. I have never been molested or raped so its not like I have had a bad sexual encounter before...pls help.........its getting out of hand....I have spoken to him about it but he doesent understand. Any reasons this could be happening and any suggestions to make it easier for me to want to finish...
2006-09-23 15:45:41 · 17 answers · asked by tiny small 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Don't worry about it. There are lots of things in this world to think about. If you don't want sex then go do something else. There's nothing wrong with you.
2006-09-23 15:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Even putting aside that you're a guy..i'm a woman, a virgin, 24 years previous..and does no longer opt to lose my sex rigidity. Masturbation is all we've were given..in case you sense it truly is change into an obsession then get a pastime to take your ideas off sex. attempt no longer to spotlight all of it the time, even with the indisputable fact that it truly is slightly some thing on the aspect. i have tried being having no sexual sex..you do not lose your rigidity. you want the kick a lot less admittedly. yet, you want it for a reason. Why supply it up? in case you do sense it truly is an habit or compulsive then treatment ought to help.
2016-11-23 18:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming your not a virgen beacause you said that the lack of desire is only a recent thing. Depression stress and anxiety can all bring about a lack of sexual desire. Best suggestion is to see a Dr. who can rule out any physical problems before sending you to a psychiatrist who could provide counseling and appropiate methods or medication to relieve the problem.
2006-09-23 16:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by bkwrm1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sexual desire is from messages received from parents, church, friends. Someone did a number on you (and a lot of other people ) and you can't remember it. You don't have a good attitude toward sex. Get with a sex healthy Friend and talk it out and you will hopefully see the light. Therapy is too costly and doubtful about the effectiveness.
2006-09-23 16:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by geoff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your putting too much importance to this,some medication especially for depression can take away some sexual urges or feelings, don,t worry about it and im sure it will come back, there are other ways of enjoying yourself, why not experiment on your own, where theres no pressure you can stop and start when you feel like it and you could pamper yourself first with facial, bubble bath with oils, just relax things will be ok.... it worked for me!
2006-09-23 21:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by tinylincs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see a doctor. Some ppl are like that, but usualy, it is from birth, not a sudden onset. Could be medical or mental or a combo.
2006-09-24 14:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by kljj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be an underlying illness, often they sap your libido; if you are on any meds at all, check the side effect listings, they can do it too. Get your annual exam and see if they can find anything physical that could be causiing it.
2006-09-23 16:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by LuLuBelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you taking anti-depressants? Many prescription drugs keep you from having any sexual desire.
2006-09-23 15:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by mamagoofy13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not say your age but ..you do say BOY...means you are still under 30 HA HA....women are not like men... and can NOT have an orgasem..misspell...,sometimes.. when we are under alot of pressure and stress... we can not feel free enought to release...it is the man that is the only one that can help ..other than that..just enjoy..and relax..do not worry ..the majiorty of women fake it..just to make the mate feel better..How old are ya.? and the bigger picture,,HE does not turn you on enought before he sticks it in...Think about it...
2006-09-23 16:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by clcschiller 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am depressed myself, and I do not take meds, perhaps you are depressed? I sometimes feel like not finishing or just crying.... weird huh?
2006-09-23 16:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by hello_kitty_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋