Me and her dated for a month and really got attached. When she broke up with me I was shocked and became extremely attached. I've been talking with her for the past few days, and I found that she still has feelings for me, and I have feelings for her too. She still wears the promise ring I gave her and stills listens to our song. What should I do?
2006-09-23 15:03:54 · 36 answers · asked by Shaggy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You 1st need to figure out y u 2 broke up in the first place. If it was over a small issue, or nothing at all, then give it another shot. You obviously still care for her a great deal, as does she. So u both need to communicate ur feelings to each other and reconcile ur differences before someone else comes and steals her heart. Life is too short so when u find that special someone, ur need to hold on tight and never let go and even if a break should occur, look to fix it quickly.
2006-09-23 15:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on why she left you in the first place. If she had a good reason but didn't want to tell you for some reason, then re-dating will probably end in more heartbreak. But if she was just trying to get some space, space wich allowed her to come to grips with her true feelings for you, then picking up where yo left off could be a great thing. The problem is, only she knows which is the case. I know that this isn't really helpful, but it is the truth as I see it. Good luck.
2006-09-23 15:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by juicy_wishun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' fight the feelings in ur heart, listen to it and run for it.. I say go for it but I can't hear ur heart, however the reason I say go for it is b/c if u don't at least give it another shot, then u'll always wonder, "what if I had"... u broke up once, u survived, u can do it again if it doesn't work out, but think of the awesome story u could share someday if u do work out!! Good luck..
2006-09-23 15:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Amy K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you still have feelings for one another, then maybe you shouldn't have broken up in the first place. I say at least try to get back together and work things out. If you don't, then think about what you might have missed. I hope things work out for the both of you. Good Luck.
2006-09-23 15:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't she an EX for a reason. She'll just do it again when someone better comes along again. She just likes nice jewelry is the only reason she still wears it. She should have given it back to you anyway since she broke up with you.
2006-09-23 15:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really stop and think about what your getting your self into. Do you really want a broken heart again???? Why did she break up with you to begin with, was it for someone else and now she's done with him??
Love is a powerful thing, just follow your heart if you two really have feelings for each other, it might work or it might be worth getting hurt over again! either way good luck to you!
2006-09-23 15:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by tree kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Remain friends with her for now. Don't rush into it. What you both need to do is rediscover what friends enjoy doing together. The best relationships are borne from friendship. Say for a few months. After that, see if it'll be appropriate to take it to the next level.
2006-09-23 15:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not if you both still have feelings for each other and neither of you are seeing other people then whats the problem? Unless you can't quite forgive her for breaking up with you in the first place.
2006-09-23 15:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by asmokincutie® 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy?! GO GO GO for it! Shes likes you, you like her whats the deal? I'm going therw the same thing. I'm going to talk to my ex on firday. We never had sex but I have a storung feeling when I talk to her we will. My feelings became stournger with her when I broke up. Funny Huh?
2006-09-23 15:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave her a promise ring and you only dated for a month?
Maybe you are moving too fast for her. Slow down, you sound desperate.
2006-09-23 15:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋