what should I do....i been likeing this boy for so long and I was gonna go and make my move........but some other girl had already did what should I do please help cause iam very hurt........and I tryed to move on but I can't
2006-09-23 14:59:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this girl does not control you and this guy being together long as she isnt a friend tell him that i know you are seeing someone right now but i really like you and have for some time and i just wanted you to know so when you are ready im here for you.he will be so blown away by your confidence and honesty that he will probably leave her and come to you.
2006-09-23 15:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only do one thing. Still make your move. The worst thing that can happen is that he'll say I'm with someone and reject you. But if he accepts your advances remind him that he has a GF and ask him what he thinks about that. Depending on the answer you'll find out if you'd still like to have him. If he says something along the lines of " I know but she's not here." Why would you get with someone like that? In the end those are you only options. You don't have him now so if he says no, what will be the difference from the current situation.
2006-09-23 22:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Damien H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he's single again. Then go get him. Or you could destroy the other girl but that might not be a good ideal. =)
Or just try to move on. You say you can't but you can. I liked a guy for 6 years and now I'm over him. It took awhile but I did get over him. Your heart will feel pain and your soul may feel like its been torn to pieces but don't worry about. You'll find someone else, someone better. Your soulmate might be right infront of you and you might not even know it. Now if you really really care for this go then go get him. Forget the other girl. But only do that if he's worth it. If he's not worth it then you wasted time trying to get him when you could of been fallin for some other guy.
Whatever your guts tell you, go for it.
2006-09-23 22:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best things are work! Bide your time .... see what happens. When the time is right start a casual conversation and make your move. Remember it was never really yours ... no one owns anyone else. If after all your efforts it still won't work out...then it wasn't meant to be. Do feel sad ... he just didn't see the good you had to offer and that's his loss......find another to will like you for your self and appreciate what you have to offer.
Be careful what you wish for.....some times it wasn't meant to be for a reason that won't become self evident for a while.
Good Luck & Happy Hunting !
2006-09-23 22:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they're not married yet, then u still have a chance!
still take opportunities to talk to him...help him out...hang out with him. always look cute around him, but don't throw urself at him. just be discreet...smile a lot. make sure he knows about ur good qualities. also see if u pick up on some of his interests...if he likes a certain baseball team...i'm not saying that u should become a fan of that baseball team, but u should know stuff about it and when they're playing & how they played...this is just an example...u could learn about some of his other interests.
2006-09-23 22:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by chloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww.......I think the best thing to do is just go up to him and say "I really like you even though I know you have a girlfriend.......but I have had a crush on you for so long.......". If he really do like you, then he will go for you. If he doesn't then at least you won't regret it.
2006-09-23 22:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by minoru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really liked you he would make the frist move maybe if you go and flrit with some other guy around him hell get jealsous and wont to go out with you instead
2006-09-23 22:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by jade s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you can take him.Please manage yourself.2girls and one boy is fantastic. Enjoy.
2006-09-23 22:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by idsalex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer him a B l o w j o b! He will go right to you!
2006-09-23 22:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by jamz2277 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
call the cops.....or get over it there are LOTS of boys out there...
2006-09-23 22:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋