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2006-09-23 14:48:14 · 26 answers · asked by Sweepy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm looking at your questions and answers to try and get a little more information so I can try and give you advice. Here's what pops out:
You don't seem to like men at all! I'm not saying you're a lesbian, but you just don't like men, or at least the men that you've had experiences with. Maybe you need to look for a man that's completely different than what you've been dating. I'm worried that you might not be able to have a trusting relationship in the future if you're attitudes about men don't change. There are good ones out there that will see you as an individual first, you just have to find them.
2006-09-23 14:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to be more than a sexual object is to be more than just an easy lay.
Work on your talents and get an education. Become a complete person who does not need to fall back on their looks to try and get a guy.
2006-09-23 21:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you just answered my question I'll answer yours too.
Well, it's unfortunate that you think that you are just an object. That's what my roommate actually thinks. But I disagree. I think that women are the most beautiful creation God has created! They are so different from one another yet so similar. And when they fall in love with you it can make a man melt (it sounds corny I know). They way they look at you and lean on your shoulder is just simply amazing. You just haven't find that one guy who truly appreciates your beauty, your inner beauty (b.c obviously they can fully appreciates the outside). I think every girl is great and some guys are just too ignorant to realize what a blessing it is that we have you here and that we are not all homosexuals. :)
Chin up!
2006-09-23 22:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, of course you can. Gay people 4 one. lol no but seriously though sexual object is a harsh word. OK, Men who are interested in you physically can also want a serious relationship/friendship with you. So i suppose you can be considered MORE than a sexual object but still we see that sexual part of you.
2006-09-23 21:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course. Learn to make your own decisions and develop true opinions and get accused of not being a real girl in Yahoo answers a few times. If you don't want to be thought of as a sex object stop being a sex object. It's that simple.
2006-09-23 21:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy will only treat you the way you let him. If you respect, and value yourself trust me the guy will notice. But also you have to think about what type of relationship the guy is looking for. And of course you have to also create a different type of attraction like showing him that you are smart. you have to get him to see more of you than what you display in bed. But like i mentioned earlier you have to think about what type of relationship they are looking for. Because if they are not looking for something serious then you are not going to get nothing serious. Also you have to prove that you are girlfriend material. But what you first of all need to do is love and respect yourself more. if you don't love and respect yourself then everyone else will do the same.
2006-09-23 21:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by pquesbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is SUCH a good question.
i've been there
you can be if you find some great guys who aren't just pigs. it is possible, just don't treat yourself as a sexual object, like don't come off as if you want to be "hot" just be there for a good friendly time.
2006-09-23 21:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are whatever you make yourself to someone. If you elude sex all the time, that is all anyone is ever going to see. But if you display charm, wit, compassion and other traits, a man will see you for more then scratching an itch for the moment!
2006-09-23 21:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u were something besdies a sexual object in ur mind, u wouldn't be one to them
2006-09-23 21:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you keep your clothes on and knees closed to give him a chance to know you and make him have to work at it to get the good stuff.
2006-09-23 21:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋