2006-09-23 14:45:30 · 20 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
lol im sorry that is funny
2006-09-23 14:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by carly f 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree with Nemesis, a woman beating a man is no more or less acceptable than a man beating a woman, your girlfriend needs psychological help to overcome her violent tendencies. I hope that you can offer your love and support and help her through this. But she does need to know that hitting is not an acceptable behaviour. Try to bring up the subject when you are both calm, and suggest that you want to help her, but she needs to help herself. She could try anger management counselling.
2006-09-24 05:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Outsider 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that this is not acceptable in the relationship. If she can't stop herself from being violent then she needs to see a psychologist. The most important thing is not to label her as a freak, and to offer her full love and support whilst she undergoes counselling.
If she refuses, then you'll have to make the tough decision and leave the relationship. Don't present this in the form of blackmail, but just say you will not tolerate violence - as this is not part of any healthy relationship.
2006-09-23 21:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by nemesis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that is hard to answer. If you should try and defend yourself while she is hitting you than you could go to jail. This is what is called double standard...If she has a mental problem you still could go to jail...I believe the best thing you could do is get her in a supportive group home and then you should leave and start living your life. I know telling someone what to do is easier then doing it!! Try and take matters in your own hands and go to counseling or take options on what to do in a situation like your....Good Luck to you whether you leave or stay with her as you`ll need it!!!
2006-09-23 15:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Carol H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think would happen if it were the other way round?
I wouldn't put up with it and neither should you. Nobody deserves to be abused under any circumstances, so get out of that situation.
If you're living together, either leave or throw her out. Obviously it would be easier if you left. If you still live with your parents, just break up with her. She's not worth it.
What's in the middle of abuse? U
2006-09-24 07:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by markspanishfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean that she actually hits you?
If so this is physical abuse.
People usually abuse because they are attempting to control you. (Have you do what they want)
Often physical abusers are also emotional abusers- they threaten, put you down, in an attempt to make you feel guilty or have low self esteem so they can control you.
Its all about manipulation and control.
Actually they are the ones that often have insecurity, and want you to be dependent on them.
It is not a healthy way to behave and no one deserves to be abused.
An abuser needs professional help to change, and even then the likelihood of them changing is low.
I would talk to a school counsellor or doctor, trusted adult.
I would also run as hard and fast as I could away from her.
Its often hard to get this kind of person out of your life , so you have to make a definite and firm break, otherwise you'll find yourself caught up in the cycle of abuse.
Good luck, you deserve to be treated with respect, and the first person to do that should be yourself.
2006-09-23 15:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by kari 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Introduce her to counseling and stop seeing her. She has issues you don't want to deal with. One of these days you'll go to defend yourself from her and end up in jail. It's sad to say but most men don't report abuse but their the 1st one jailed when they try and defend themselves. And I'm not saying by hitting her, you could just put up a hand to ward off her attack and if she ends up with a bruise your the one going to jail. You don't need the head ache and she needs help. There are two many good woman out there that will love and treat you with respect.
2006-09-23 14:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have her get counseling. And if that doesn't work, then tell her you want out of the relationship. No woman should beat a man, just as no man should beat a woman.
2006-09-23 15:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her good-bye, unless you enjoy being victimized. This kind of behavior will only get worse, so I hope you care enough about yourself to get out of this relationship. She needs help and if you hang around with her you will also need help. Walk away! Run away! NOW.
2006-09-23 15:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing a woman should do if a man beats her.....leave.
2006-09-23 14:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the cops, paddy, or hit her back during the next episode.
If she doesn't act like a lady, don't treat her like one.
2006-09-24 06:09:34 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋