i told my mom that i was pregnant and that it may not be micheal's baby she said tell him or get out of the family i told him around 8 clock he take it hard then he said to my mom that he loves me and he wants the baby now that his friends wants to take care of me and tha baby who should i choose my mom wants to pick the friend but he is abusing to people my mom called a died beat daughter i have get micheal truth back plz plz help me what should i do
2006-09-23 14:42:05 · 19 answers · asked by To Tall 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i'm only 2 weeks pregnant. micheal and i want this baby together. i got drunk that nite and micheal did want me caround his son. so i want w/ his friend to his house. but early on that day micheal and i did it. i want to be with him he is 25 and i'm 22. i think 100% micheal is the father. i just need help the is not part of this, but he wants the baby and me. i don't want him. plz help
2006-09-23 15:05:14 · update #1
his friend is name kevin and i don't want him to raise the baby. he was in jail and he was a drug dealer when he was 16. i need good advice.
2006-09-23 15:14:27 · update #2
Maybe if you didnt want to Lose Michaels trust you shouldnt have went out and ****** his friend? Hm? Then you wouldnt be going through this right now.
2006-09-23 14:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by jamz2277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u are pregnant your emotions are all crazy. I cant hardly under stand did u mean your mom called u a dead beat daughter. I hope i'm wrong. U r not . U should not let your mom rule and run your life. I'm a mom. and i would not call my daughter this. And she has done way worse than a gift like this. You should always be calm and happy after all you are pregnant. Are you going to keep the baby. Or addopt it out. Remember how not to treat a child because of your experience. You should do what makes you calm and happy. Dont let people run your life take charge for your self go get help there is help for young mothers. U cant even get your own place. sounds like you need it. The government has all kind of programs for young mothers. to be.
2006-09-23 14:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by someones sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geezzz....."Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practive to decieve" ....Well, If you are sure that what you are carrying is the friends.... then that is the one that is responsible..now you want to be with Micheal..and he wants to take care of you and the baby now well, then you need to make it known to the actual father what your plans are..but I hope you know you have caused a big turmoil..because I am sure you have families involved..but I hope you can get answers soon pertaining to the baby..DNA and such..so that you can go ahead and start doing the responsible thing.. Your poor mom..and you are not a dead beat daughter..people say things when we are upset and not thinking straight...it doesnt mean she doesnt love you she is just aittle dissappointed in you...God Be With You..
2006-09-23 15:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by ck1_content 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever let anyone hit you or abuse you in any way including verbaly. Swettie, you need to speak to a counselor and remember that yes this is happening to you right now but you don;t have to make any major decisions right now. Time is on your side because you have it so don't make a decision just because your in the middle of things right now. First, go talk to someone. Second, take a breath and relax. Things will be ok. Everything happens for a reason.
2006-09-23 14:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by buttons799 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-learn to type
2-learn to keep your panties on
3-If the guy is abusive, stay as far away as possible. Go to a woman's shelter if your mom kicks you out. If you feel you can't be a mom, look into giving the baby up for adoption. THere are lots of options, but you have to be smart now. And from the way you type, you are far from smart.
2006-09-23 14:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, be sure to get into school so you can learn to write the in the English language. That will be important when you raise that child you are carrying. Certainly, you have more of an education than shows in your question. If not, do something about it now!!
Chow!!
2006-09-23 14:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bit late to choose the father of your child. But you can choose with whom to spend your life. Do NOT choose someone who is abusive - whether he's the biological father of your baby or not.
2006-09-23 14:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by HelpfulHanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell everyone the truth, they all deserve to know the truth, and you half to follow your heart about who you want to be with, do you know 100% who the father is? if not you need to find out, not for you, for the baby....! good luck...follow your heart, it will lead you along way if you let it!
2006-09-23 14:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by miss.d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be true to your self. Go with your heart but listen to your brain. It would make ZERO sense for you to go with a guy that you know is abusive! That's just stupid...why risk you or your baby?
2006-09-23 14:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by prrose99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go on the Jerry Springer show to work this out. We can't help you here on Yahoo Answers.
2006-09-23 14:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋