My ex boyfriend was the one who ended it,but after he would still say hi to me on msn. That has stopped now, and we hadn't had spoken for 3 months until one day on msn he surprised me, when he said hi to me, cuz I never though he would. I was helping my sis pack for Western University and I put "packing for Western" on my msn quote, he says hi, and after the casual stuff he asked me if I was going to Western, I said no & told him the story and after that he didn't respond. So I asked him why he was saying hi to me now, and he said "its cuz he hadn't seen me in awhile and cuz he drives by my house a lot cuz his friend lives near me" and then he said he had to go eat and left. Why did he contact me and why did he become silent and rude once he found out that I was not leaving for Western? Does he still care or is he just a curious jerk?
By the way, we had a very innocent relationship, (it never went past kissing) and it only lasted a month.
2006-09-23 14:41:54 · 18 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes dumb he either wanted to make sure you wasnt going anywhere so he could try to get you back if he wanted or something like that but cmon only a month relationship...why even worry about it
2006-09-23 14:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a JERK. he probably wanted to smash ya house or something, i know these sort of guys, ive been out with more thsan a few of them. he probably aslo didnt like the fact that it never went pass kissing. im with u all the way about not going to far, but he probably wouldnt have the same thoughts as me. just ignore him, id delee him from your msn contacts, or block him. he is doing u no good, just dragging u down. find a nice guy, and forget about him
lots of luv,
ezza
2006-09-23 14:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What`s with all the drama and gossip, there are better things to be doing. Seriously, think about it, how are people supposed to know the answer to your questions when they don`t even know your boyfriend, or you, it`s very imature. Not to be rude or anything but think about it, your caught up in all the worldly things. Give your life to Jesus Christ, he`ll change your thinking process, and your heart. If you chose a life apart from him, be ready for some serious heartbreak in your life, because without him nothing will ever amount to anything. Don`t put your faith in the worlds ways, give your life to Christ, then your eyes will be opened. God Bless.
2016-03-27 05:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just curious and wanted to know if you were leaving the area. Wanna play a game? Put on your MSN that Yes, you are moving and see what happens..
2006-09-23 14:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by thegirlsnextdoor2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your ex has exhibited is very typical of men who want to have their ex back but cannot say it properly. Im sure he wants you back but cannot find the right way, and for that matter, the right words to express what he really feels. He is full of pride that is why he wants to hide his true intentions by being rude so that in any eventuality he can always massage his ego by thinking that he didnt make the first move.
2006-09-23 14:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by juliusnunag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're referring to him as an ex-boyfriend, but you only dated for one month, and then not even very heavy, you could be scaring him. Sounds like he's curious, but scared of you too.
Maybe he wants to be friends only.
I would send him a message asking what's up with him. And ask
him directly if he wants to be just friends and if you scared him off.
2006-09-23 14:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an ex who used to ignore me and the out of the blue he would email, or call me and we would hook up, and then ignore me again. this went on for 10 years. I finally had to start "ignoring" him, though the temptaion to talk to him was hard to resist.
I still see him on myspace, and I know he checks my profile out, but we don't talk.
2006-09-23 14:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like he wants you to be around when and IF he would need you, he contacted you when he thought you were leaving to make sure you would still be around somewhere if he decided he had nothing better to do!
2006-09-23 14:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....then why are you still hung up on this guy. it sounds like YOUR the one that STILL hung up on this guy. if you only dated for a month. why would you care if he stopped to ask you if you were going, it's just an innocent question. i think you took it out of context!!!
2006-09-23 14:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by david_e22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL So why do YOU care? That's the question. You dated for less than a month and only kissed.. PUHLEASE. Get over it. He's a dork.
2006-09-23 14:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋