we'v been dating for 2 month...
we were so- happy.....
but now i move in korea for 6 month....
everytime he said " i miss you alot "
he send me email...and he never calls me....
he said " i'll buy a card and i'll call u honey"
but it just saying....
i called him everytime....
should we break up ?
2006-09-23 14:40:58 · 25 answers · asked by MinaMina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nah, men are just like that. Yahoo eachother by IM and it will be good. You can't sweat the small stuff. You should believe him when he tells you he misses you. Surely, you can feel it.
2006-09-23 14:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about the only option that you have at this point is to settle for e-mails, if those stop, it would stand to reason that he must have moved on.
Long distance things are very tricky and some last and others don't.
Good Luck
2006-09-23 21:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wasnt able to afford a card to call, but if he rlly misses u hell try anything to call!! i mean hearing ur voice should b very important to him.. i wont say u should break it up, just b honest and tell him, if he doesnt change then i guess hes no good for u
2006-09-23 21:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he doesn't have the money to buy a card. Ask him in a way that won't be insulting. One can't be too sure. You have to hear straight from the man.
2006-09-23 21:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not that into you anymore. Some people can't deal with absentee lover. Talk to him, ask him point blank.Sorry, but you are probably right about this relationship.
Good Luck
2006-09-23 21:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by *ELiZaH* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you calling each other by cell? Maybe his plan doesn't charge extra if he receives a call from overseas. Or maybe it is a company phone and the calls are tracked.
Why don't you ask him why he doesn't call? I'd like to know if I were you.
2006-09-23 21:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by marleyfu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys arent comfortable talking on the phone. My brother isnt, but hes went through several break ups because of it. If you really love him, dont, but if you dont love hime, then do so, becuase your only hurting yourself by staying with him.
2006-09-23 21:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well realistically and logically speaking you need to move back to where he lives... if you can't do that than yeah unless he is moving to where you live or you see each other alot
or your living situation is only temperary otherwise time to break up and find somebody closer...
2006-09-23 21:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you this, sweetie......He already did break up with you. Move on and learn to write English better.
2006-09-23 21:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. its easier to hide that ur cheating when you don't hear a voice or anything in the backround. b4 i broke up with my ex, she used to say i didn't call. I didn't call her because i didn't like the (b)itch
2006-09-23 21:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by tuss2oo5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋