My boyfriend asked his friend that was a girl to go hang out with him, and he doesn't even ask me to come. And lately- he's been blowing me off to go and do a lot of stuff like: "I can't come over today- I ugh, have to go with my mom to..." when he's online all day on MSN & myspace. We haven't been on a date in over 3 1/2 months. Should I be suspicous?
2006-09-23 14:37:09 · 18 answers · asked by bratworth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Or am I just being dumb??
2006-09-23 14:37:36 · update #1
wow.. that's an obvious question. I'm sorry to say, but it sounds like your relationship is over. He might not have said anything, because he sounds like a coward. But move on and don't invest anymore time in him.
2006-09-23 14:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.....sounds like it's over honey. Being in a relationship should be a good thing that makes us feel good. If you're feeling so much doubt and misery, break it off. He's not right for you and there's someone else out there that will enjoy your company.
Just remember though, just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean that you have to spend all your time with them. If your man wants to spend time with friends (of either sex) it doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating.
But, if this guy hasn't taken you out in 3 months, dump him.
2006-09-23 21:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you havnt been on a date for 3 1/2 months i think it is really serious. I think you should dump him! you dont deserve him.. if he was going to not hang out with you and hangs out with other girls or spends time on msn, he shouldve broken up with you if he was a nice person. I guess he isnt, and you should dump him! I would anyways/
2006-09-23 21:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hanging with his friends is fine, but,.....3 1/2 months??? Yes, be very suspicious.
I like Jamzz suggestion....find a guy to "hang" with and see what happens...
2006-09-23 21:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by thegirlsnextdoor2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like you need to get a clue. He's obvously blowing you off and taking the easy way out of breaking up with you.....you know...."I'll treat her like crap so she'll break up with me and I won't have to do it".
I can't believe you've been okay with how things have been for the last 3 1/2 months. Break up with him.
2006-09-23 21:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by lutl424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody needs time and space,but 3 1/2 months no date,dump him be for you get dumped.Be a step ahead of him.
2006-09-23 21:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart you're never just being dumb, 9 out of 10 if you're having suspicions this early on in the relationship then chances are you're intuition is right, get out before you get hurt!
2006-09-23 21:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be suspisios, keep watching eventualy ask him about it. Or just be hotter then ever so he will relize what a good thing your relationship is and he will regret doughting it.
2006-09-23 21:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.... He doesnt want to date you anymore. To see if this theory is correct, show up at school with another guy on your arm. See how he likes that.
2006-09-23 21:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by jamz2277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be. Better yet, take a hint. Give him a break and go silent. See what happens.
2006-09-23 21:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋